AVeryConfusedGuy Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 This has probably been asked alot, but I'm a little confused so bare with me. So I met this girl at her work (she was cleaning my table) and I talked to her for a bit. I eventually got her number and we started texting on and off for a week. We then hungout and things went really well. We were always talking and laughing and we never had any weird or awkward silences. Later on in the night we went to some park just to be random and still having a good time, and we went to sit on a bench. Idk what we were talking about but I jokingly put my arm around her and she stopped me and instead put her head on my lap and was laying on me, and re-placed my arm around her. She then started holding my hand and was 'drawing' on my arm and hand with her finger for awhile and saying she wished this night wouldn't end. Then we got off the bench to walk to my car and she again started holding my hand as we walked to the car. When we were in the car and I started driving her back to her house, she took my hand yet again and even held it for the entire drive home. She at one point even put her head on my shoulder. We never kissed but we had a long hug and she said I was a really cool and chill guy, to which I of course said the same thing back. The thing that confuses me is that she's kind of a flirty person. She likes to talk to everyone and even says hi to random people sometimes, and she says she has guy friends but nothing serious. She's actually still a virgin and hasn't had any serious relationships before and has only made out with people. She's kind of a bad texter (she usually replies within seconds or minutes if we're talking, but alot of times will put few word answers) but she's in school and works, so it's understandable. I was just wondering if these were all good signs that she likes me? I didn't kiss her that night because I didn't want to make things weird if she was just being friendly, I don't know her well enough to know yet since we only hungout once. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 yes it's a positive sign. It's not definitive because you don't know if she's hold hands with other guys. Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 You say "hang out", so was it just a friendly thing, or did you make it clear you wanted to date her? She may be touchy/feely with all her friends, or may not, but it depends if it was seen as a date. You seem unsure of her intentions, but maybe she's just as unsure about yours. Date her next time. Make it clear you're interested and not looking for another friend (obviously, don't just blurt that out, but make your intentions clear). Kiss her goodnight next time you take her out. Her reaction should help you further. Link to post Share on other sites
The_Dork_Lard Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 I though long and hard about this. She put her head in your lap, put your arm around her, held your hand, and then drew on your arm with her finger? I was in a lot of doubt at this point. But when you said she then expressed a desire for the evening never to end, I still couldn't be sure. However, you mentioned she held your hand for the entire ride home? It's possible she likes you. It's hard to tell. Putting her head on your shoulder, and then being partial to a long hug... aaarrrgghhh it's just... it's all on a knife edge. Personally, I'd give it about 5, maybe even 10 more dates, and if she repeats the same behaviour, I'd be inclined to feel certain she's beginning to warm up, and that she likes you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AVeryConfusedGuy Posted April 18, 2016 Author Share Posted April 18, 2016 You say "hang out", so was it just a friendly thing, or did you make it clear you wanted to date her? She may be touchy/feely with all her friends, or may not, but it depends if it was seen as a date. You seem unsure of her intentions, but maybe she's just as unsure about yours. Date her next time. Make it clear you're interested and not looking for another friend (obviously, don't just blurt that out, but make your intentions clear). Kiss her goodnight next time you take her out. Her reaction should help you further. I worded it as a 'hangout' because I hardly know her(we've literally known each other for a week) and I wanted to take things slowly; but we went bowling, went out to eat and went to that park. It seemed only friendly during the bowling and eating part, but when we were at the park it's like we started connecting and relating to things. It seemed 'romantic' at the park but 'friendly' during the first half. Seeing that she's kind of flirty, that's why I'm wondering if she does this with other guy friends or not, it makes me wonder lol. There really was this moment I thought we were going to kiss when she was laying on me because she was looking up at me with a smile, but just in case, I didn't. If we hangout again though and things go like they did last time, I'll move in for one and see what she does. I was just wondering if those were good signs? Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 How did they feel to you? Go with your instincts. If things go wrong then you at least gave it a chance. If things go right... well, there's nothing more to say is there. Link to post Share on other sites
SwordofFlame Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 I would operate under the assumption that she likes you. If that's how she treats all of her guy friends, than I want no part of her. Link to post Share on other sites
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