Ifeelok Posted April 18, 2016 Posted April 18, 2016 It has been about 9 months since my ex gf decided to leave me for her co worker. It hasnt been easy, but I have managed to over come most of the pain. I would be lying if I said I didnt miss her or think of her at times, I mean we were together for 5 years. With that said, the best thing that I could have ever done was focus on ME. Yes, focusing on myself really helped me the most. I blocked her from all social media, yet for some reason her friends and family still follow me even though I unfollowed all of them. I have lost so much weight 60lbs to be exact. I am a happier person and the best part of all of this is people have noticed. My advice for anyone going through tough times is just give it time. Time fixes most of all the problems. I remember crying at night, asking god why me? little did I know this was a blessing in disguise. I lost weight, and unfortunately for my ex she gained weight (from what ive seen). By the way ive ran across her several times since we live down the street from each other. The fact that she decided to leave me for someone else after so many years together and to give me a whole story full of lives speaks more of who she is as a person than it does about me. I actually met this super attractive girl not to long ago, and it reminded me of how much the world has to offer. I was stuck on my ex, who honestly never truly appreciated everything I did for her. I walk around proud, knowing that even after all she did to hurt me I was the bigger person, I walked away without saying anything bad about her both on social media or verbally. So with that said, guys and girls just give it time, you will find yourself, you will love yourself. 8
bathtub-row Posted April 19, 2016 Posted April 19, 2016 I think this is something often overlooked and not talked about often enough -- when a person maintains their dignity in the face of great despair, and they take the higher ground. There's a lot to be said for that. A lot of people don't think it through and realize that doing things that they feel bad about later only worsens things. I think almost everyone has gone through the pain of losing someone they love. It is truly one of the worst feelings in the world. But there does come a point when we start to remember that there's a great big world out there and that life is full of options. We just can't usually see that in the midst of our pain. Be proud of yourself for getting through this in the way that you have. 1
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