ThisisIt606 Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 I had a convo with a guy on tinder (matched/chatted) last Sunday. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. He set up to meet tonight at 9pm for drinks. We haven't talked since then (last Sunday). He also hasn't confirmed for tonight yet. Since I haven't heard from him, and I'm steadily seeing another guy (Let's call him D)... I don't plan on going tonight. Should I text to cancel or just leave it? I'm not sure what's the proper etiquette in this situation... I'm actually seeing D tonight. D recently told me he's not seeing anyone else and would like to see where things go with me. Thanks!
clia Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 I think the polite thing to do is to text and cancel, since you agreed to the date. 2
SwordofFlame Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 Text to cancel and don't worry if he responds or not. 2
HansonGirl Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 I had a convo with a guy on tinder (matched/chatted) last Sunday. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. He set up to meet tonight at 9pm for drinks. We haven't talked since then (last Sunday). He also hasn't confirmed for tonight yet. Since I haven't heard from him, and I'm steadily seeing another guy (Let's call him D)... I don't plan on going tonight. Should I text to cancel or just leave it? I'm not sure what's the proper etiquette in this situation... I'm actually seeing D tonight. D recently told me he's not seeing anyone else and would like to see where things go with me. Thanks! I agree with everyone else - text him to say sorry you can't make it - doesn't matter whether or not he even remembers- at least you're covered! And btw, why are you making dates on Tinder if you're seeing D?! 1
Erik30 Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 He probably thought his work was done after setting up that date. It's pretty much his own fault, he should have arranged to meet you sooner. A guy can't just have one conversation with a girl, and then let a whole week go by without contacting her when you're still basically complete strangers. Just text to cancel, don't worry about it. 1
strong-hearted Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 From my experience just let it go, been dating this guy I met on tinder. I was the one who started the conversation. We were supposed to meet up on a Friday night but he never texted me so a year later still chasing after him. Long story short meeting a guy from tinder was a huge mistake for me.
truth_seeker Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 why are you making dates on Tinder if you're seeing D?! She's not completely sold on D so she wants to see who else is out there. D is just a guy she will date until a guy she likes better comes along.
thecrucible Posted April 17, 2016 Posted April 17, 2016 I would text to cancel. See if he replies. I know how you feel as I don't expect wall to wall conversation before I meet a guy (too much) but I want him to check in to build anticipation for the date (like texting midweek to say he found a great place or he's looking forward to it or something).
Otter2569 Posted April 17, 2016 Posted April 17, 2016 Definitely text and cancel. It is the right thing to do. I had a similar situation with a woman however during the week I texted her twice and she never responded. When date day came I just never reached out and let it go. She sent me a pissy text later that night "I guess you didn't want to go out". Better to be the better person
truth_seeker Posted April 17, 2016 Posted April 17, 2016 Definitely text and cancel. It is the right thing to do. I had a similar situation with a woman however during the week I texted her twice and she never responded. When date day came I just never reached out and let it go. She sent me a pissy text later that night "I guess you didn't want to go out". Better to be the better person You sent her two texts and she didn't bother to respond... yet she got upset when you dropped her on date night. No need to be the better person in this instance. She was an idiot.
dumbass2 Posted April 17, 2016 Posted April 17, 2016 Definitely text and cancel. It is the right thing to do. I had a similar situation with a woman however during the week I texted her twice and she never responded. When date day came I just never reached out and let it go. She sent me a pissy text later that night "I guess you didn't want to go out". Better to be the better person I use to get the "I never received it" from my ex. Some people are just rude and will never change.
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