HansonGirl Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 (edited) This is not really a dating question per se but I am kinda interested in this person so I wasn't sure where to put this . I have an acquaintance who the second time I saw him he greeted me with a kiss. And I know he does classes in ballroom dancing and tango .I think that is kinda cool for a guy. But it also makes me think of him as this Casanova Rico suave type (lol) . He's American btw. Born and raised. But the funny thing about it is that he's also extremely awkward. He seems uncomfortable in his own skin . It's to the point where I wonder if it's a lost cause because no matter how friendly I try to be I feel like he's extremely uncomfortable. Like that's surprising to me because i have seen a video of him doing his untimiate dance moves with a beautiful girl .And he also likes to kiss hello. Seems like he ought to be smooth . But he's the opposite of smooth lol . Should I keep being interested to see if maybe we could go out somehow or move on? What do you think is up with him ? He is a nice guy . He likes sports and was telling me about the teams and the brackets and the seats or whatever and I was trying to tell him I don't know anything about sports and asking about it and it was just like really awkward. I can't explain it. Just seems very underconfident(like how woody Allen described Michael Caines' character in Hannah and Her Sisters) and I don't get it .He's handsome .Top of his class. intelligent . Clearly has the moves lol . How could he be so awkward ? Edited April 16, 2016 by HansonGirl
losangelena Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 Who knows! Maybe he's cultivated this "Rico Suave" persona to help himself get over his awkwardness. Sometimes, people are awkward. That doesn't mean they're bad relationship material. If you're interested in him, continue being interested. Seek him out, talk to him, try and get to know him. Over time, you may find he becomes less awkward.
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