WhomiHide Posted June 18, 2005 Posted June 18, 2005 I went to my ex's house today to get some more of my things. WE have been dating for 4.5 years. She told me that she KNOWS with all her heart that she is mt soulmate, and i know with all my heart she is mine. But we can't communicate. She and i have so much in commom but for some reason dont know how to tlak to each other. She tells me when i hug her, or put my arms around her she feels so safe and secure and feels as if with every stroke of my hand she feels protected. But the problem is... she is dating someone who is 7 years older than her....and seem like she likes this person very much. I am not sure how to handle this soulmate business... I really truly do feel a connection with her and her ONLY. I could tell where on her body she is touching, cause i feel it happening to my soul. i dotn know if anyone understands that but we can touch each others soul...so why does she choose to be with somone else? Then she said to me...you are my soulmate why am I with other people when i could just be with you for the rest of my life.... i am 22.... and she is 23..... she also said that she doesn't have a "soulful" connection with the other person but they can talk....and i know she is attracted to this person... any help! any advice? How should i feel?
Tony Posted June 18, 2005 Senior Moderators Posted June 18, 2005 It doesn't matter if we believe in soulmates or not, we have lots of them out there and if one doesn't want to be our soulmate there are many others who do. Communication is the cornerstone of long term romance. Sadly, the two of you can't communicate. That, to me, indicates the two of your aren't soulmates....or you haven't worked on the communication part. However, it seems to me she's doing a pretty good job of communicating with you that she is moving on. I don't think this lady is leveling with you. If she had special feelings for you she would be with you. When dealing with the opposite sex, no matter what they tell you judge your position with them by who they are dating, who they are with, who they are having sex with, who they spend their quality romance time with.
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