chanandlerbong Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 So my boyfriend broke up with me in june of last year and even if the breakup hit me like a yellow school bus, I was able to unfollow him off all social media and move on with my life. We ended things because we were moving away for college but he's been contacting me ever since. He keeps telling me he misses me (even more so lately) and makes sure to tell me when anything significant happens in his life. He even told me he started listening to Brazilian music (I'm brazilian). I don't know what to think.. it's been almost a year and even though i'm doing okay, I don't understand why he keeps talking to me and telling me he misses me if he's the one who wanted to end things in the first place. I can't really tell if he's doing this because he doesn't like seeing me doing fine or because he genuinely misses me. what do you guys think?
gimlynick Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 The thing about the music is just because he wants your attention. I don't know, it's possible that he wants you but... If he really wants you he knows where you live, he can ring your bell or wait on you when you've finished school and arrive at home. He broke up, so if he really wants to get back together ( and if you want this aswell ) he will have to prove himself that he made a major mistake in letting you go. If you don't want him back then just go to strict NC.
Hoosfoos Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 He's trying to make himself feel better and be the "good guy", even though he was the one that broke up with you. It relieves his guilt.
kidm Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 Stop responding. He misses you but not enough to want you back. Why are you tormenting yourself? Read this article:Miss You, Miss You, Oops, But I?m Not Getting Back With You: When Your Ex Says They Miss You But You?re Still Broken Up
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