broke up w someone, kinda lost my mojo.. :(

[mixeypixey]

so i broke up w someone maybe 1-2 months ago, it wasnt the most conventional of relationships (she was married and a co-worker)..

 

the love was really intense though, but as it turns out she was just using me to get rid of her husband.. and yeah basically shes just a total b****, anyways all my office mates believe that i chased after her and failed miserably, cuz i somehow stupidly agreed w her not to tell anyone that we dated (cuz it wld make her look bad) and after defending her all this time, she eventually fked me over as well..

 

shes already left the office, but anyways.. i am casually dating 2 girls but truth be told its getting kinda sour.. and i want to look for someone new.. but my heads still wrapped around what happened before w this married girl..

 

i used to be pretty ok at chasing girls, and a few weeks back it just came so easy to me, but now i just cant seem to. i try and try but nothings happening..honestly deep inside i truly want a break from chasing new girls..

 

but a new relationship wld be kinda fun, but im finding so hard to get my mojo and confidence back what the hell do i do :/

[preraph]

You stop worrying about women for a little while and spend time going and doing stuff with friends or traveling and doing the things you totally enjoy and put this one affair into perspective. It was an unusual situation. Better luck next time.

[mixeypixey]

yeah the thing is from the start, i knew she was attracted to me, but i didnt really want to knowing shes married.. but she just kept talking and talking to me, until i eventually fell for her.. at which point if i didnt pursue her, i would be so heartbroken everyday seeing as we work together, so i did then we dated for a while..

 

sometimes i feel like god is punishing me for dating a married person but truth be told the only reason i kept it going is because i really fell in love w her and cared about her.

 

anyways mate youre probably right. though theres a girl at the office that just keeps looking at me and i know that wld be my chance at redemption, but its proving really difficult to just get up and go for it..

[jen1447]

Take a break. If no one's feeling it but they used to it's bc you're projecting loser vibes. Not a big leap to figure out why.

 

Do the solo thing for a while and as long as this girl didn't like actually kill you inside, you should get your mojo back.

[mixeypixey]

exactly what ive been feeling to do. take a break..

 

but im just venting a little bit, so all my office mates keep on making fun of me for being single.. mostly cuz of what happened w this stupid married girl before.. (most my office mates are girls). anyways luckily i still have some for fun relationships.

 

but yeah its all just been a tramautizing, stressful and uncomfortable experience..

 

thanks for the inputs though. i kept on telling myself "put your back into it.. just be a man and chase someone new.." but yeah maybe a break is necessary.