Need suggestion - should I contact for this after 6 months strict NC?

[Emma1a]

Hey guys,

 

God I don't remember the last time I was here! (Maybe 6 months), life's been great, made so many friends, having good times all the time, gone travelling the world and got promoted at work!

 

Kinda seeing someone and I know as hell I am over him. So I just cleared my storage room coz I'm moving to a new place but I found his university diploma. I want to just throw it away because I really have no intention to speak with him, but another part of me feel like it's wrong to throw his diploma away? I want to ask him his parents afdress and postal code (I don't want to know his). What do I say so that it doesn't seem like I'm still not over him (which is not true that's why I don't want to contact him)? We haven't messaged at all since last Sept and I didn't even message him for his birthday in March.

 

What would you do if you were me. Thanks guys, appreciate your thoughts!

 

Emma

[LD1990]

"I found your university diploma, what's the address where I should mail it?"

 

Yes, he'll probably just give you his address, but there's really no way to ask him for his parent's address without looking ridiculous here. If an ex did that, I'd probably say just mail it to me and give my address anyway, after wondering why on earth someone would ask for my parent's address to mail me something. I think you've gotta bite the bullet here if you want to get this back to him.

[privategal]

Can u have a friend drop it off to him or mail it to his work w/ no note?

I think dioloma is easy to get a copy of from university, you can probably pitch it.

Id try ANY means to not break contact.

[Zapbasket]

Toss it. If he needs his university diploma, he can get another one from his university.

 

This kind of sht with possessions after a breakup seems always to stir up far more emotion than the possessions are worth. If you had his great-great-grandfather's monogrammed pistol or something, or his uncle's Stradivarius, then it would be imperative that you return it. A diploma? Nah.

 

Toss and keep moving on.

[BC1980]

If it was that important to him, it wouldn't be in your storage container. I say toss it since you have to contact him for an address. If you are dead set on returning it, I would try to find a way to get it to him without interacting with him. Maybe get a friend to give it to him. But yeah, like others said, he can get a copy from his university if he wants one that badly. I don't think it's worth the trouble honestly.

[Emma1a]

Thanks for your input guys. You are right, I am gonna toss it. It's really not worth it to break NC. I really don't want to talk to him at this point.

[Emma1a]

Just tossed it!!!! No more looking back ever, what's in the past is in the past.