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Boyfriend got mad I didn't want to have sex last night?


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If he's not in love with you by now, he never will be. As others said, it's time to move on (and expect more for yourself).

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It never works if people live together. Many studies have been done on this, and we're not sure why it doesn't work. All we know is that the sense of commitment does not stick.

 

What are you saying never works... falling in love after moving in together or the relationship itself if you live together? I'd like to read these studies.

 

But yes, OP, as I mentioned in your other thread, move on.

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I hate to say this, but you are in a situation here. You've been together for 2 years and he has not said "I love you" yet? The truth of the matter is that he's never going to say it because, quite honestly, he doesn't love you. He'll come up with a million and one reasons how/why he doesn't or can't, and they're all lame.

 

Moving in together? You might as well put the last nail in the coffin. Living together is not going to help but hurt it even further. Fact. It never works if people live together. Many studies have been done on this, and we're not sure why it doesn't work. All we know is that the sense of commitment does not stick.

 

It's time to move on. I'm sorry and hope your next LTR will be more successful.

 

He has said HE LOVES ME on numerous occasions just hasn't fallen IN LOVE yet. But thanks for the advice.

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Falling in love to him may mean marriage. He loves you but may not feel yet you are the one he wants to marry.

 

That's part of the reason he backed out of living with you fir 2weeks/ month. He isn't ready for that or you just aren't the on.

 

I haven't read above about other relationship isdues here...you need to talk with him. It's at a cross toads right now. Yes, after 2 yrs of a relationship you should know enough about the person to decide on marriage.

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