1Jessie86 Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 That moment after being intimate with someone you head to the bathroom only to notice strands of another womens hair lying around. What would you do? I took off. I'm only dating this guy. I've only known him a fww weeks. He can do what he wants. But I still find it disgusting knowing there's other girls.
Zippy2000 Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Is his name Norman Bates? Could be his mother`s hair! 6
Mrin Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Um.... he's a guy. Unless he has a cleaning lady, those strands of hair might have been from his ex.... from 2009. 4
kendahke Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Not to mention he doesn't do a good job of house keeping. 5
LydiaLong Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Really? You sleep with a man you've known for two weeks and then get disgusted over another woman's hair in the bathroom? Interesting world we live in. 10
kztar Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Not to mention he doesn't do a good job of house keeping. I would cut him off for being dirty lol. I do full inspections when I am going to dude's houses. Anything nasty, gross and turnoff forever. 2
stillafool Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 You did know you weren't the only one he was having sex with didn't you? 2
Author 1Jessie86 Posted April 15, 2016 Author Posted April 15, 2016 Thanks for the harsh words all. Obviously I made a mistake and should have listened to you all before.
preraph Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Guys are seeing other women until they at least say they're not -- and even then, some of them are seeing other women. He's sloppy, so he doesn't much care if he gets caught. 1
katiegrl Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 I am wondering how you know it's another woman's hair -- a woman you believe he is currently having sex with? I gather the hair strand is a different color than your boyfriend's... so apparently it's not his. Okay. But how do you know it's not his sister's (if he has one), his landlord, his plumber, a female friend, his guy's friend's girlfriend. Hell it could be anyone's hair. What makes you automatically jump to it's another woman's hair he is currently having sex with? Just curious. 2
lil hoodlum Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 How do you know the stray hairs are from another female? Some men have long hair too! 1
Larryville Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 But I still find it disgusting knowing there's other girls. If dude had a house full of cats with hair all over would that be not so disgusting? Trying to understand the level of what is disgusting and what is acceptable disgusting... dirty sheets, moldy dishes in sink, bathtub ring... 1
katiegrl Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Trying to understand the level of what is disgusting and what is acceptable disgusting... dirty sheets, moldy dishes in sink, bathtub ring... I am trying to understand why she automatically jumped to it's another woman's hair he is currently having sex with?
Larryville Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 K I thought the same thing when I first read, but Mr. Peabody is not here to help us understand and diagnose. LOL!
Shining One Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Do women have a special skill for finding another woman's hair? My older brother was helping me install some new ceiling fans and he brought his wife and daughter over. They were laying in my bed watching TV for a few hours while my brother and I worked. My girlfriend came over that night and within five minutes, she found a strand of hair from each of them. Despite the bed being a more incriminating location than the bathroom, my girlfriend didn't jump to the conclusion that I was sleeping with someone else. 1
jen1447 Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Do women have a special skill for finding another woman's hair? We can be pretty perceptive with that yeah but my BF's detected quite a bit of girl hair too so I don't think it's really a gender-based super power. As far as OP goes, you don't really know-know based on just a hair but you still know.
kendahke Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 That moment after being intimate with someone you head to the bathroom only to notice strands of another womens hair lying around. What would you do? I took off. I'm only dating this guy. I've only known him a fww weeks. He can do what he wants. But I still find it disgusting knowing there's other girls. But he's doing what he wants and that may include being the same kind of intimate with them as he was with you. Did you and he have a talk about expectations of exclusivity, or did you think that because of this moment of intimacy that in the time leading up to you finding the hair you assumed he was being exclusive with you? No one is being harsh--we're trying to wrap our heads around what you expected out of him because you didn't mention that you two were exclusive. You say you're only dating him, not in an exclusive relationship with him--hence the responses you got. If that's not really the case, please enlighten us.
kztar Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 If dude had a house full of cats with hair all over would that be not so disgusting? Trying to understand the level of what is disgusting and what is acceptable disgusting... dirty sheets, moldy dishes in sink, bathtub ring... Cats, Dogs, anything is GROSS. Specially Catsssss. I would kick the cat and the guy to the curve. LOL As a girl, I tell you that having a clean kitchen and a clean bathroom is essential. If a girl is as anal as me, she will find the SMALLEST stains on the kitchen, ONE piece of hair in the bathroom. It's the little and big things that count here. As far as the OP assuming is someone else's hair, if she hasn't dated him for that long that is not important. He's not obligated to her. I guess after things start getting more serious then that should be of worry. I would be more concerned about how clean he is.
preraph Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 You should have asked him "What slob left long hair all over your bathroom?" Kills two birds with one stone.
sandylee1 Posted April 16, 2016 Posted April 16, 2016 It could have been a female friend who brushed her hair in the bathroom. Establish whether or not your exclusive and decide if you want to stay in a relationship with him and be clear what that relationship looks like.
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