tomboi Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 I have know this girl for past 3 years she used to be very flirty with me and tried to give me all her attention.. But I saw her just as a friend ( what dumbass I am ) she lived in my colony but moved out a year later.. Nearby.. She stopped everything with me, I didn’t notice.. a few months back during new year eve (2015) she came looking hot..now i developed a huge crush on her!! She glanced at me quite a few times so I went and said hi, her friends kept on giggling so I got creeped out xD And said i'll catch up later.. later that night when I went home after the party we texted all night sending funny pictures of each other ..and also said her friends find me cute.. I said even my friends find you hot.. Later we both got busy in finals.. 2 months later after the finals during the bus ride (she goes in the same bus as I do for school)i tried to give her a big hint like when I was sitting beside her we were poking each other , so I by mistake (tried to make it look that way ) held her hand and looked in front.. she stared at me and didn't move her hand away ... soon our friends brought a topic to us and we both pulled our hands away.. Now there is this guy (friend) in the bus everyone keeps teasing both of them to be gf and bf tho they don’t accept it and the guy tries to ignore her .. She gives him all the attention when I am around… people in my bus turn everything sexual tho noone gets offended.. she is the kind of girl that wants all the attention she can get and if she doesnt she will always say something sexual to get everyones attention.. now recently something from my past came up about a girl that i was staring at some girl's tits.. and the girl that i like said thats soo disrespectfull and everyone said a lot of ****.. i was embarrased so i just shut my mouth.. a week later (yesterday) a msg popped up it was her.. We talked and I asked her out,she said yes but few mins later when i fixed up where we would go said she thought I was joking.. I said now its awkward , she said sorry quite a few times I said its midnight gtg sleep, bye.. is she just playing mind games (friendzoning me)?.. or should i text her casually or wait for her to do it? should i talk to her the next time we see each other? or should i just ignore her and move on , because she is just destroying me emotionally?.. anyother suggestion..i have school 2 days later i dont know how to act around her.. i really have started to like her (sorry cant put up much details, i gave an overview of things..)
Zippy2000 Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Well we dont know her as well as you do and the story you are telling us about her is through your interpretation. Rather us giving you feedback or reading into every small incident. Why not just ask her out!
preraph Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 Look, this woman is a mess. You said yourself that she is just an attention seeker. She will say sexual things just to get attention. She probably has crap self-esteem deep down, but it's hidden under a big mess who will probably always cheat on whoever she's with just like Tiger Woods because she's an attention addict who needs constant validation. I know men fall for these types and women too. I was close with a woman like this for many years. She couldn't stand it if she couldn't have all eyes on her in a room. She used to get mad at one of my love interests, who'd bring his guitar, and she'd come home while he was holding court and try every attention getting trick she could think of to get the attention away from him and on to her and then get mad if it didn't work. Men were always interested in her because she was constantly flirting with them and teasing them as if she was interested in them, but she did that to pretty much ALL guys. She'd make a date with two or three guys for the same night and then enjoy the chaos that ensued when they began showing up OR she'd leave before time for them to come and I'd have to deal with it. They'd sometimes come in and sit waiting until they figured out there was more than one of them waiting for the same tease to come home. So what I'm telling you is she's a mess and not to give your heart to her. She isn't really interested that way. She just likes a lot of attention and even if you got to date her, she'd most likely cheat all over you.
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