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A few months ago, I went on a date with a guy and I had a really good time. I saw him again a few days later and ending up sleeping with him. After this he ghosted me and I had hardly no contact with him... Until last week when I woke up to a call from him at 4am. Why has he suddenly got in contact after so many months? I'm so confused at what game he's playing and it's driving me insane!

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Wait, he slept with you, ghosted you, then called a few months later at 4am!?!!

 

Ahhhh, I would say he was looking for sex, and has little respect for you. Personally I would tell him off then block him.

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A few months ago, I went on a date with a guy and I had a really good time. I saw him again a few days later and ending up sleeping with him. After this he ghosted me and I had hardly no contact with him... Until last week when I woke up to a call from him at 4am. Why has he suddenly got in contact after so many months? I'm so confused at what game he's playing and it's driving me insane!

 

You gave it up for him once before. He's hoping you'll do it again.

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Larryville Established Member

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I really enjoy being with him and I genuinely really like who he is as a person. We have had sex.

 

A few months ago, I went on a date with a guy and I had a really good time. I saw him again a few days later and ending up sleeping with him.

 

Is this like the obligatory prank post?

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LostOnes05 Established Member

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Wow...a real winner, that guy

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He wants sex ignore him.

 

There are so many posts on here from women that sleep with guys then wonder why things change. Sex early on changes things! (usualy not in a good way) If you want to have sex with the guy....fine but be ready for a shift in the "relationship"

 

I personally will not have sex with a guy until I'm in a serious relationship for at least one month. That rule of thumb weeds out the guys that are only in it for sex and it protects me from getting invested in a guy whos only going to use me then discard me.

 

For women that want something real, long term. Not just sex. I recommend implementing this rule.

 

For women that just want sex....go for it

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Zahara Established Member

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He was looking for a quick/possible booty call.

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