greatsauce1 Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 I'm spending a lot of time with a person whos broken up with me, but has come forward and said that she wants to try to get things to work out and maybe get back together. The thing that is bothering me tho is that she seems to always be very angry, and bitching about the smallest amount of things, screaming and yelling etc for seemingly no reason. Just a very bad attitude problem. She stated that she gets angry by talking to me, but there is really not any logical explanation behind it, so I'm wonder why do you think this could be? I feel like I'm taking a lot of unwarranted and undeserved **** for no apparent reason..
amaysngrace Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 Do you know if she takes meds for mental illness like BPD or something? Maybe she should.
Toodaloo Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 I'm spending a lot of time with a person whos broken up with me, but has come forward and said that she wants to try to get things to work out and maybe get back together. The thing that is bothering me tho is that she seems to always be very angry, and bitching about the smallest amount of things, screaming and yelling etc for seemingly no reason. Just a very bad attitude problem. She stated that she gets angry by talking to me, but there is really not any logical explanation behind it, so I'm wonder why do you think this could be? I feel like I'm taking a lot of unwarranted and undeserved **** for no apparent reason.. Simple resolution. Stop spending time with her.
Zahara Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 I'm spending a lot of time with a person whos broken up with me, but has come forward and said that she wants to try to get things to work out and maybe get back together. The thing that is bothering me tho is that she seems to always be very angry, and bitching about the smallest amount of things, screaming and yelling etc for seemingly no reason. Just a very bad attitude problem. She stated that she gets angry by talking to me, but there is really not any logical explanation behind it, so I'm wonder why do you think this could be? I feel like I'm taking a lot of unwarranted and undeserved **** for no apparent reason.. Instead of questioning why people get bitchy -- in terms of this woman, it would be best to ask why you tolerate being treated that way. You can't control who she is and why she behaves the way she does but you can control the choices you make.
Methodical Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 As long as you are willing to be a doormat, expect to get trampled on.
elaine567 Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 Was she yelling, screaming and angry before the split, or is this a new thing since she got back together with you?
Author greatsauce1 Posted April 11, 2016 Author Posted April 11, 2016 I'm definately doing some heavy thinking about whether or not I should just jump ship or not, it's just that I want it so badly to work out and I wish she wasnt being this way, even tho it doesnt seem like something I'm in control of. She didnt use to be this way before we split up, it's only something that has started recently but I also know she works very hard and probably doesnt get enough rest etc so that could also be a factor here..
stillafool Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 I'm spending a lot of time with a person whos broken up with me, but has come forward and said that she wants to try to get things to work out and maybe get back together. The thing that is bothering me tho is that she seems to always be very angry, and bitching about the smallest amount of things, screaming and yelling etc for seemingly no reason. Just a very bad attitude problem. She stated that she gets angry by talking to me, but there is really not any logical explanation behind it, so I'm wonder why do you think this could be? I feel like I'm taking a lot of unwarranted and undeserved **** for no apparent reason.. Don't get back with her. Summer is coming and there are a lot of women you could be meeting and having fun. I would not saddle myself with a sour puss. Pass on getting back with her. 1
The_Dork_Lard Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 I'm spending a lot of time near a bonfire that's broken up with me, but has come forward and said that it wants to try to get things to work out and maybe get back together. The thing that is bothering me tho is that it seems to always burn white hot, and burns over the smallest amount of things, crackling and popping etc for seemingly no reason. Just a very bad chemical reaction. It stated that it gets hot by talking to me, but there is really not any logical explanation behind it, so I'm wonder why do you think this could be? I feel like I'm taking a lot of unwarranted and undeserved burning for no apparent reason.. I hope you don't mind, but I've quoted your post and reworded it, turning it into an analogy in the vague hope it puts things into a different perspective for you. Play with fire, and all that...
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