Decipher_Man_Speak Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 Lord, I had a moment of weakness this past Friday and propositioned my horrible ex-fiance for sex. My birthday is coming up and I am lonely and not wanting to up my numbers, so during a texting conversation we were having where he was telling me how he loved me, but that I was crazy, I confirmed his suspicions by saying, "We clearly don't work as a couple, but I miss you and want to see you. How about we meet up one weekend for NSA?" He told me it couldn't be this weekend, because his son was in town, but that he would have to think about it and let me know. He was pretty clearly drunk. Sadly, I wasn't. So, the next morning he sends me a totally impersonal email about something work related (we had worked together on a project that he was updating me on) and I make a joke about the planned hookup to which he doesn't respond. It has been two days. I haven't said anything else, impersonal or otherwise. He also had told me that his son is going to be in town until tomorrow, so maybe that's why he's not responding? I've never felt more pathetic, stupid and desperate sounding in my life. I'm totally humiliated and am wondering if there is anyway to redeem myself from this? Haha, I really don't need any comments telling me how stupid that was--believe me, I know, but I was sad and lonely and we had been together for 3 years. Best sex of my life. Still, should I message him and say, "Wow, can't believe I did that. Just forget that conversation took place," or should I say nothing and then tell him it was a mistake if he ever does bring it up? Suggestions/advice?
AT15 Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 I would drop it. You're human. Human's are the most erotic creatures on earth. You went for the familiar. I would try to pass it of as part of your transition period 1
The_Dork_Lard Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 I did a similar thing, and propositioned my horrible ex too. I was less explicit, an made it subtly suggestive - which was declined. It was the BEST sex of my life too, like you. I mean 5 times better than anything that went before. So I dealt with it by just dealing with it. What's said is said. The closest thing to redemption is to learn not to do it again.
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