Omes1 Posted April 10, 2016 Posted April 10, 2016 Does this mean she is involved with someone else? For me it's not the end of the world if she is because I am also 'involved' with someone else for now. But here's the deal, I've been out with this woman a few times. After that we keep in touch a little via phone and sometimes text but then LONG periods of no communication. And every other weekend or any type of holiday period (i.e easter break, summer break) any type of holiday when her kids are not at school and she is less busy she COMPLETELY disappears off the face of the earth. She disappears from all social media, even though on regular work/school days she is VERY active on Facebook. She will just log out of it and disappear for up to 3 weeks sometimes. I sent her a text once during one of these disapparences, of course there was no response. She also ignores/doesn't see friends who have written on her facebook wall or been trying to call her. Then she comes back again with either a phone call to me or a social media communication. Then comes the next weekend or period of child free time and she's gone again. I have asked her once about this and she just apologizes and says she's been busy and has weird moods where it means she doesn't want to talk to anyone so she just 'locks off' completely but she still wants to go out with me. So I message her asking her to come to a movie with me (which SHE told me she wanted initially). She doesn't look at the message and disappears again for 2 weeks. Now she's back and I had a missed call from her yesterday. Like I said I'm already 'involved' with someone but I would not hesitate to get into a relationship with this woman, except I am sick of her disappearing all the time and never contacting me at all during that time. The fact she ignored my request to come to a movie which was her suggestion in the first place might have put the nail in the coffin. But I still can't shake her off completely. I want her but I'm sick of her. Also, if she is not interested in me why does she still keep phoning me?
Jabron1 Posted April 10, 2016 Posted April 10, 2016 Your princess is in another castle. I want her but I'm sick of her. Also, if she is not interested in me why does she still keep phoning me? To check if you're still in orbit. If you haven't even had sex with her yet, now is the time for you to disappear.
Author Omes1 Posted April 10, 2016 Author Posted April 10, 2016 Your princess is in another castle. To check if you're still in orbit. If you haven't even had sex with her yet, now is the time for you to disappear. Yeah I disappear often too that's what I mean when I say when I do it myself she comes back with a phone call or via instagram or something. One of us always caves in and comes back to break the 'no contact' after these disappearances. As for the sex, I'm not really that bothered about it to be honest. I'm still getting sex from my other involvement anyway. It's just there's other things about this woman that I like. I even recognize some of myself in this behaviour of hers but I hate it at the same time.
smudge21 Posted April 10, 2016 Posted April 10, 2016 So you're in a relationship of sorts and possibly so is she... yet you keep teasing each other? Sounds like a match made in heaven. Either put up or shut up, as the line goes. If you want to be with her then make it clear. If she says no, then walk away. 1
truth_seeker Posted April 10, 2016 Posted April 10, 2016 Games. How fun. So stupid. The only thing that is accomplished is getting a migraine. If you really like her, you call her, talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she isn't direct with you about it, you have to let her go. Don't ever speak to her again.
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