xforeverlove22 Posted April 9, 2016 Posted April 9, 2016 So my ex ghosted me for 6 months and he ghosted me the day he got a new girlfriend. Even in person we wouldn't look each other in the eye. He randomly messages me and asks me how I'm doing. We kept it casual than he ends it by saying he's here for me. Anyways I got drunk (really drunk). Than I confronted him about why he messaged me and asked if its cause of guilt for dumping me and he said he truly wanted to know how I've been and gave me space and thought nows the good time to ask. He said and I quote "I still do care for you and it's more genuine than before I'm truly here for you." Than under the influence of alcohol I started telling him how I still had feelings for him... He looked at these messages but didn't respond (he may have even blocked my #)& he unfollowed me on instagram. Anyways I saw him in person 2 weeks later and he talked to me and gave me a high-five (wtff lol), and sat at the table directly behind mine.
Zahara Posted April 9, 2016 Posted April 9, 2016 Why are you even engaging someone that treated you with such disrespect? Block him and move on with your life. 1
Author xforeverlove22 Posted April 9, 2016 Author Posted April 9, 2016 Why are you even engaging someone that treated you with such disrespect? Block him and move on with your life. It was in person, too bad life doesn't come with a block button
ff12343 Posted April 9, 2016 Posted April 9, 2016 I'll give you some new advice. When you walk by, MAKE SURE to make eye contact with him. Look him dead in the eye and smile. Smile as if you have 3 guys waiting in your bed every night. Guys that won't high five you. Smile as if you just don't care about his thoughts. Smile as if you won the lottery. This will also make you feel better regardless. As for what he did, yes it is beyond low. Maybe he was warming you up for a booty call and the sudden thing you said freaked him out. Nobody knows. One thing is for sure though. no respect and zero integrity. Just know you did nothing wrong but it is time to block him permanently on everything so this cannot happen again. Time will heal.
Zahara Posted April 9, 2016 Posted April 9, 2016 It was in person, too bad life doesn't come with a block button I understand that -- this isn't just about contact in person because you both have been messaging each other. Why have you been engaging?
TaraMaiden2 Posted April 9, 2016 Posted April 9, 2016 How many more threads are you going to post with this exact same issue? I even asked you in the final post of the above thread, what your intention was with continually posting about this....? The question therefore is not so much about what he is doing and why - but what you are doing. And why. 1
mortensorchid Posted April 9, 2016 Posted April 9, 2016 Block him. He is yanking your chain to see how you will react and wants you to either get angry or break down in tears or something. Avoid him, no contact, block him, and move on.
Author xforeverlove22 Posted April 9, 2016 Author Posted April 9, 2016 He blocked my number, facebook and unfollowed on instagram but than comes talking in person....
Zahara Posted April 10, 2016 Posted April 10, 2016 (edited) He blocked my number, facebook and unfollowed on instagram but than comes talking in person.... The guy ghosted you. And you're still questioning his actions? The question should be, again -- why have you engaged with a guy that has such disrespect for you. The only thing you should be doing is shutting the door rather than questioning his actions. Best to question why you tolerate the drama. Probably likes keeping you on the hook because he knows you're still affected by him. It's a great ego boost. Edited April 10, 2016 by Zahara 1
Author xforeverlove22 Posted April 10, 2016 Author Posted April 10, 2016 The guy ghosted you. And you're still questioning his actions? The question should be, again -- why have you engaged with a guy that has such disrespect for you. The only thing you should be doing is shutting the door rather than questioning his actions. Best to question why you tolerate the drama. Probably likes keeping you on the hook because he knows you're still affected by him. It's a great ego boost. Yeah that or for an easy hook up I think I'm slowly becoming distant, its going to be a matter of time
Versacehottie Posted April 10, 2016 Posted April 10, 2016 I'll give you some new advice. When you walk by, MAKE SURE to make eye contact with him. Look him dead in the eye and smile. Smile as if you have 3 guys waiting in your bed every night. Guys that won't high five you. Smile as if you just don't care about his thoughts. Smile as if you won the lottery. This will also make you feel better regardless. yessssss 100%!!!!!!
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