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Are we teenagers right now? This guy and I (26/f)


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So, I get to the place and I see cute guy. Except cute guy is with some blonde butch/overweight girl who may be into him and I'm with my male friend (who I was flirting a little with).

 

He stands literally right behind us.

 

I finally decide to say hello anyway and I lightly touch his back and he turns and he's smiling and happy to see me. Says hello, and then we get into a mini-spiff.

 

First, he asks me how I've been, etc. And then he asks me what time did I get there? I tell him I got there pretty early. And he says how did he not see me? I ask if he got there early and he says he did. I then say he never notices me (please don't ask me why I said this I'm so stupid. When I'm with him, sh** just comes out) and then he says you don't notice me either and I say okay fine you're right. and then we're both huffy and puffy. I suddenly ask for my where my friend went (mostly to myself) and he says he has no idea who my friend is, and I told him he might know him. The guy has been to his house, for crissakes. He shrugs and acts like he doesn't care. I wave my friend over, about to introduce them and then he walks away from me and the blonde girl and stands by himself. Of course, little blonde girl goes right over to him and I'm feeling crushed/devastated, and my friend is left hanging. Cute guy pays absolutely no attention to him. I get ready to leave and male friend has to use the restroom. Guy leaves blonde girl and goes somewhere. I wait for my friend and then I look up and see guy looking at me. He's standing directly across from me. At this point, I'm fed up and I just refuse to look over again. My friend comes after speaking to cute guy's roommate and I get my things and go.

 

I wouldn't be this crazy if he'd just keep his mouth and hands to himself the first night we met, and then if he hadn't asked me to hang out all the while not making any plans to do so. Ugh. I'm just fed up with this guy. I thought he wasn't interested which is fine but then don't ask to hang out with me. Effer keeps leading me on.

 

So, anyway, the noticing thing started when I was just hanging out with him and the friends and he's joking around to them and not me. Fine. I don't say anything either until he introduces himself to me??? and then he acted so happy to see me. He asks me if I changed my hair/ I told him I did and lost weight and I can clean up good too. He introduces me to his friends saying "she's awesome" and all that. At the end of the day, he came after me, apologized for not seeing me and asked me to hang out with him at the next event. I say fine. He gives me dates he's available but I'm hoping he'll let me know.

 

At this point, I'm like I can't. I feel like we're acting like teenagers right now

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