cac3232 Posted April 8, 2016 Posted April 8, 2016 Over the past 5 months I've become really close to an employee of mine. She has a boyfriend of four years who lives out of state. I'm 37 and she's 24. We quickly bonded over work then things expanded to texting at night, going to concerts, games, etc. right before Christmas she texted me saying that whoever the girl I'm waiting for is going to be lucky because I'm such a great guy. At work we are inseparable and go to lunch together almost every day. On more than one occasion when apart for several days she has texted saying she misses me. She has visited my apt several times for dinner and just to hang out. Most of those times end with us cuddling on the couch. Just recently I bought a puppy which she absolutely adores. She has a key to my apt and will take care of it when I'm away. I put up some new pics of my family and she commented - the dog will get the girl and the family pics will reel her in even more. There have been several days as of late where she was in a really bad mood and plain and simple just a bitch. She has stopped texting at night and hasnt come over at night in a few weeks. However things at work are great and she still goes home with me at lunch. Am I stupid for thinking she is confused with her feelings and that I have a chance to date her?
BlametheIrish Posted April 8, 2016 Posted April 8, 2016 Do you really want a chance to date someone who isn't trustworthy? If she treats her boyfriend this way, do you think she'll treat you any different if or when you're her boyfriend? She sounds immature selfish and untrustworthy. No matter how nice she is or how well you get along. I'd stay far away from a woman like her if I were you.
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