Enough to say she's narcissistic?

[markof]

Met an appealing 29 years old girl lately.

I broke up with my ex 2 years ago and had only short term affairs since then,but this girl might be different.

She has a great personality and a tremendous body,which is a winning combo for many and I certainly don't stand out from this pack.

I have some concerns about her attitude sometimes though,I've been put off a bit when I saw her instagram account...Lots of pictures displaying her body in a "I look hot and I flaunt it" way,nothing really trashy (like no softporn/bedroom pictures or whatever) but anyway a lot beach small bikinis stuff,deep v necks,thousands of followers,like the kind of stuff you see on top models accounts.

I understand that if you are young and have terrific curves you show them proudly even if you didn't choose to be a pro model but social medias scare me away.I don't have reasons to believe she's addicted or spends too much time online (she seems to work seriously) but I wouldn't like it if vanity could take over a potentially good relationship.

Is it a normal behaviour?My exes were less flashy.On the other hand frankly they did not have such a figure,so it'd be hypocrite from me to say she's wrong.

[madyg88]

it's no way enough to say she's narcissistic unless you are a dumb prude.

OBVIOUSLY,if this is one of the many things on the list it makes the difference.but if this is just one thing,she's simply not narcissistic,she probably is aware of looking that good and as a normal human being she feels good in showing it off (especially as long as she doesn't have vulgar attitudes).

i think some vanity in a woman is part of her femininity;instead,if this means she's conceited,arrogant,permanently acting entitled in real life,that's the kind of vanity to be far away from to me.if vanity is just taking care of what God gave you (body) and posting some sexy shots (without spending hours on social networks) without forgetting to be a person of taste,but because you are happy and confident.. i think a man found a treasure!

 

i am really skinny so i am not that proud to post gstring bikinis,but if i was gorgeously curvy i'd maybe post them too.

i think that it is hypocrite to claim the opposite;why shouldn't you share your beauty?you go in a bikini on the beach and with a v neck to dinner,so taking pictures is nothing to be considered absurd.sure.. unless it is not an obsession.

[Buddhist]

No. That's not enough to say she's narcissistic. Narcissism as a pathology is a whole lot more than just showing off your body. I personally don't get the whole instragram crowd and wanting to be a celebrity etc, but it seems to be a really popular thing these days. I think it's just the accessibility of it all that makes it so. No such mechanisms existed in my day for self promotion so no-one did it.

 

Dating her is the only way to discover the truth of her personality and emotional development.

[Satu]

All completely normal.

[Standard-Fare]

I gotta say, I can understand why that would be a turnoff. Not that she's doing anything "wrong" in posting those kind of pics, not that it means she's a narcissist, but it might be a signal that you two have very different personalities.

 

Some guys would be all over that type of thing. You're not. It reads to you as flaunting and indulgent.

 

However - that's not enough reason to not give her a chance. Learn more about what she's like in person. It could turn out that you come to see this confidence as refreshing and sexy.

[preraph]

Can't say if she's truly narcissistic, but for sure she likes lots of random attention, and I would find that offputting and hard to trust. I do see it as a red flag.

[hugsandkisses]

You're just being insecure yourself. She's just a confident woman, if she has it, she can flaunt it. And you said it yourself, her pics aren't out of line soft porn or anything, so why do you put too much thought into this? Be careful you might just scare her away for being insecure.