Luci Posted April 7, 2016 Posted April 7, 2016 (edited) *His girlfriend 1 month ago I met a guy from Spain that was for a short time in my country. I admit that I wanted to have a one night stand with him because I had just broken up with my boyfriend 1 month ago (he cheated on me) and now I regret it. We had some dates and then we had sex. Now I found him on Facebook (he told me that he didn't have one) and i realized that he has a girlfriend and they have been together for 2 years. I feel angry towards him because they have photos together and she said to her how much she loves her. I now is not my business but I feel so bad for her because 2 years is a long time to waste with a cheater. I feel that I should stay away from all this but I feel so angry and like garbage. If you were her would you like to know? Edited April 7, 2016 by Luci
mrldii Posted April 7, 2016 Posted April 7, 2016 Whether she would want to know or not, doesn't matter. She's not going to believe you. If they don't have an open relationship OR had an agreement that, 'while in Spain, do what Spaniards do', then he'll simply let her know that "you were some chick he met at a club one night that he barely even noticed ('cuz you're fat and ugly and stupid, anyway') but he felt sorry for you, so he danced a couple of dances with you and you fell madly in love ('cuz you're not used to guys paying any attention to you) and you're some crazy foreign psycho chick who stalked him down on FB and now is contacting his real girlfriend and the woman he really loves, and see...??? Look! I told you so! Now, she's contacting YOU, honey!" And, she'll believe him, because he's there in front-of-her face and she's invested in him, and you're some nameless, faceless internet troll, who might even be a 300# guy, typing in his underwear on a computer in his mommy's basement. Let it go. Learn from it...but, let it go. It was supposed to be a one-night-stand, anyway, by your own admission and desire.
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