ShortFuze Posted June 17, 2005 Posted June 17, 2005 Well here is the situation with me.. I think I am a boring person because I like to stay home and when I talk I don't have any excitement in my voice. I never change my voice or anything...so I'm not a funny guy. I guess I might be a little too hard on myself, but I haven't been on a date for almost 3 years now. It's hard for me to talk to girls because I don't know what to say..don't know what to talk about. And plus I don't know a good place to meet girls. I really don't have many girls that are friends or that I can talk to about this. Also I am scared to to do alot of things and to take chances. Is that a bad thing? Any advice?
Mary3 Posted June 17, 2005 Posted June 17, 2005 May I suggest a group called Toastmasters. This is a fun class where you learn to stand up and speak to people. You are graded on your speech and how to improve. Its great for talking to girls, talking to groups and its fun to remove some of your shyness Look it up on Google in your local area
chaos70 Posted June 17, 2005 Posted June 17, 2005 I'm a member of Toastmasters as well. GREAT way to get your speech abilities improved. You start off with topics that you are familiar with. I kinda had the same problem you had. I worked for a lasertag company back in the 90s where I had to give a 10 minute tutorial on how to play and eventually it went away. Eventually I ended being the corporate event person because I had such a great presentation on how to play (imagine 40 people chanting "die!" when I ask them what happens to them when they break the rules).
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