Gingerlocks Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 Evening man' Here goes; There is this girl where I work. She is really nice and pretty (I think) (I'm 22, and she is 23). Now all of the guys gives her attention, tries to make her laugh, wants her attention, talks about her a lot; "Oh, she looked at me", "Oh, she smiled at me for ages" and so on. Because they do that, I automatically turn away from her, as I'm afraid that I'll be to much. Anyways... I still wanted to get to know her, so I added her on facebook. We started talking (I had to start every conversation, don't know if that matteres) but I just felt bad, as I could see everyday that guys were trying to get her attention. So I would delete her again, and she would write to me why I would do that, and that it made her sad... So I would add her again... I've been told by various of my friends, that every time they see her, she is looking at me, as she walks by or something like that, and she has asked some of my friends about me. Now, I'm good friends with an older woman at my work, and she used to be that girls stepmom, and they still talk ALOT. Now, she told me yesterday, that the girl is REALLY interested in me, and I should ask her out... I just find that really hard to believe... I don't know why, and i don't know what to do. It's doing my head in. Because, I think she is nice and all, but im just worried that if I ask her out, and she says no, it's going to change a lot. Im tempted to just block her on facebook, and just avoid her completely at work. What should I do man?
preraph Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 Well, as long as you think you can trust the stepmom, go for it. But some people do just meddle. Her stepmom may like you for her, but just be telling you she likes you. No way to know, but she did make clear it bugged her when you got off her Facebook, so.... There's nothing wrong with just quietly asking her to lunch at work. Be very discreet. You might even ask if she'd rather meet you outside and not walk out together to curtail gossip. People do go to lunch.
Buddhist Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 Block her and avoid her definitely, that's a sure fire way to get what you want. 1
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