aliveagain Posted April 6, 2016 Posted April 6, 2016 Why don't you take all this wasted energy and focus instead on your marriage. Save it or end it. How can you expect it to survive if you are only in it part time? I don't know your story but does your husband know your gay or bisexual? Sounds like she's a serial cheater who just moves from one affair to another. If you have this much emotional attachment to her, just my opinion but Your husband probably sees your conflict and may already suspect something is going on. You are in a very dangerous place, decide where you want to be should be your first step then get rid of everything that interferes with that goal. You need to come clean with your husband if your not in an open marriage.
MidnightBlue1980 Posted April 7, 2016 Posted April 7, 2016 I appreciate all of the feedback and the stories. It's a crappy place to be in. And most people on this site know the pain that comes from feeling broken and lost. I knew better than to mess around. I couldn't help myself. The woman just does so much for me. Guess I am lovesick! Gosh. I can relate to the pain of heartache and being used. It really doesn't matter if it is a man or a woman using you for sex. It hurts. Do you want to be married to your spouse? It doesn't really matter if its a he or a she. Do you want to be with him or her? Regardless, your first step is to cut off the sex Second, the friendship. Friends don't use each other and she is using you. Look, I relate, everyone here does on some level. You need to figure out if you are with the wrong person in your marriage. There are so many people out there for you to meet, better people, healthy people. Or maybe you decide to rebuild with your spouse. Or maybe option 3, something different the two of you experiment with. In any scenario, this woman is not part of your world.
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