BrokenEng Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 My partner n I were together 3n half years. We have a 9 month old son and was due to marry mid may this year. Last week we paid the whole wedding off, the next day, she broke up with me n threw me out. She says she's sorry but doesn't want to hear from me again. She is widdowed from 8 yrs ago n very well off financial. She says her late husband set the bar to high n I don't compare. We have now argued, she has blocked me n said I have to go to court to see my son. The only negative she said of me was she couldn't tell me she didn't want to fey married as I intimate her, yet she is very strong n always outspoken. Please help woth advice
bathtub-row Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 She sounds like a complete ass and you're better off not having such a heartless person in your life. I know you can't see that right now but it's true. Decent people just don't do things like that. Also, she has no right to keep you from your son. Go see an attorney quickly and get that resolved. I'm really sorry you're going through this. 3
Phoenician Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 I am really sorry to hear that you are suffering ; but believe me : you are lucky ! imagine how your life would be in few years if you married her . Handle the issue well by proper channels , and go live a new life . you desrve to have someone to love and be loved. 2
ad4m Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 Wow this is rough. I am sorry to hear about your situation and feel bad for you. Although I have to agree, I think you may have dodged a bullet in not marrying her! You deserve someone much better than her and I wish you good luck in getting custody of your son. 2
Author BrokenEng Posted April 5, 2016 Author Posted April 5, 2016 Thanks all. I was thinking I could never resolve, but thought everyone would say just give time etc This is a big help
ExpatInItaly Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 There's got to be more to this than what you've described. How was your relationship up until this point? Why does she say she you intimidate her? (which was I assume you meant to write, rather than "intimate) What was the argument about which led to the cancellation of the wedding? 1
Author BrokenEng Posted April 5, 2016 Author Posted April 5, 2016 I thought perfect, honestly. No argument up to telling me. Argued after about seeing my son. Her late husband had a very big status in the community n she always lives of that, still got a private reg with his name etc. Is as if I'm jus not the same status n she doesn't want to let go. She said it all hit her when we paid the balance on the wedding. At first I thought nerves. One othe point, she has crashed dieted, I mean not eating for the wedding, lost 2 stone in 2 months n this or stress has effected her periods
Author BrokenEng Posted April 5, 2016 Author Posted April 5, 2016 Btw, apologise, I'm having to use a works phone to access site, all I have
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