Densel Posted April 4, 2016 Posted April 4, 2016 Hi all My ex girlfriend broke up with me 4.5months ago. Throughout the 4.5months she was the one that iniated contact. She text me 3 times. 2 times about exchanging stuff and the most recent about visa application . But nothing of "I miss you " , "how are you?" I have been reading through most of the threads, every dumpee gets the "I miss u" etc. Why my breadcrumbs is so different? I would love to hear what u guys think. Thanks in advance. 1
basil67 Posted April 4, 2016 Posted April 4, 2016 Why are your breadcrumbs different? It's because they aren't breadcrumbs. She's only contacting you over matters which need to be dealt with. Glad she's not stringing you along. 2
Toodaloo Posted April 4, 2016 Posted April 4, 2016 Sounds to me as though its just practicalities after a relationship has ended and not that she is wanting you back nor that she is stringing you along... I don't want to contact the tax office but I have to sometimes. Same difference. 2
Author Densel Posted April 5, 2016 Author Posted April 5, 2016 I think what makes me angry/upset is that there is no apology from her till now. She left me for someone else. Rubbing it in my face and through facebook. Told me lots of lies. I had my flaws in the rs too but she do not have to end it disrespectfully. Does she ever feel guilty? 1
Satu Posted April 5, 2016 Posted April 5, 2016 I think what makes me angry/upset is that there is no apology from her till now. She left me for someone else. Rubbing it in my face and through facebook. Told me lots of lies. I had my flaws in the rs too but she do not have to end it disrespectfully. *Does she ever feel guilty? *Probably not. She probably never will. Why don't you just block her? *No direct contact. *No sending or receiving of messages. *Block any means she might use to contact you. *No replies to anything that gets through your blocks. *No indirect contact through third parties. *De-friend or delete from all social media. *No monitoring of her on social media. *No 'little birds' feeding you news. *Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying.
Author Densel Posted April 5, 2016 Author Posted April 5, 2016 Satu, I did everything u said. She was the one that unfriended me on fb. I ignored her last text about the visa application. Some people just don't have remorse or guilt. Don't understand why.
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