AbsoluteIdiot Posted April 4, 2016 Posted April 4, 2016 Long story short... I am going through some things in my life with myself which i won't go in to, but i haven't been a great frame of mind and definitely not very mentally healthy. Unfortunately, i let this cloud my relationship with my girlfriend of 11 months and after a rocky couple of weeks between us i ended things. To make things worse later that day i already had planned drinks with some old friends and stupidly i consumed way too much alcohol and slept with another girl. I felt horrible during every second of it. and since have felt absolutely sick to my core. The next day i met up with my (now) ex-girlfriend to try and explain to her that she was not the cause of any of the 'rocky' times we had, but rather me and my own issues and that now i had identified them i could really work on them. She had always said 'If you ever cheat on me and you're really sorry then just don't tell me' and although technically i didn't cheat because we were broken up, i still feel like i did. She then asked me the next day if i slept with anyone the night prior and i told her the truth. She said she never wants to see me again and followed it up with a call regretting even meeting me in the first place, our entire relationship and giving me everything i deserve in the form of words. She was amazing, she was the love of my life...and i so easily threw it all away. if i tried to talk to her now she would still be so angry and i know she loves me somewhere still. Is this able to be come back from? I am an idiot.
LD1990 Posted April 4, 2016 Posted April 4, 2016 I felt horrible during every second of it. Every second huh? If you felt so bad every second of it wouldn't you have simply stopped right away? The next day i met up with my (now) ex-girlfriend to try and explain to her that she was not the cause of any of the 'rocky' times we had, but rather me and my own issues and that now i had identified them i could really work on them. So these issues were bad enough for you to break up, but now after a day you want to get back together? And when did you identify these issues? While you were getting drunk and hooking up with another girl? if i tried to talk to her now she would still be so angry and i know she loves me somewhere still. Is this able to be come back from? Not if she has an ounce of self respect. Come on, you broke up with her and then had sex with another girl on the same day, and then a day later you wanted to get back together. You can talk all you want about how she's the love of your life, that's a pretty horrible way to treat someone you love. You screwed this one up, leave her alone and let the poor girl get on with her life. 3
Neffer Posted April 4, 2016 Posted April 4, 2016 There is no coming back from this. I feel really sorry for your ex-girlfriend actually. I mean you slept with someone the SAME DAY you dumped her. Why not just suckerpunch the girl and beat the crap out of her? That is what you did to her emotionally. If you were able to have sex - get back to whomevers home, in bed, complete the deed ... then you were not that drunk. Be honest. Too drunk to know what you are doing is too drunk to function sexually for a male. You knew what you were doing and chose to do it every step of the way. Leave your poor ex alone so she can start to get over this. You treated her like garbage. Worse. 1
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