I feel lost

[goal12]

Me and my ex GF broke up 2 months ago was my fault she loved me so much. didn't cheat or anything,just broke up with her out of know where was having a bad day. I rang her next day and said sorry for doing that but she was after going out and kissed someone so that kind shook me up but i respected her for being honest . We didn't talk for 2 days i rang her up said do you want meet up and have a chat about everything she said no there is no point but she kept mailing me week after we broke up i wanted be with you forever ill never love another man as much all this stuff but then she started dating this man she kissed and mailing me how good he is to her things he does for her even telling me when she had sex kept rubbing it in my face i don't understand that ???I will say he is taller and better looking probaly more exciting since we kind of got boring at end our relationship just staying in watching films and she seems be having fun with his mates also now,But now she gone very bitter towards me calling me ugly and so on when there is point and i was happy for her i told her this but kinda feel lost now but not showing her my emoticon but its killing me,its been nearly 2 weeks since we talked to you think i should tell her how i feel or just keep on not talking to her ?I am very down loosing weight and getting really bad anxiety

[LovelyJoey]

Well first of all, don't feel like anyone is above you. Looks don't matter when it comes to true love. Also, if she's rubbing it in your face and all, she doesn't seem like such a good person in my opinion, though I see you've tried to talk to her, and she's also tried to come back, but it seems shes sending you mixed signals. I would say if you've done all you can, you cannot just keep trying to get into contact with that person, much as it hurts you have to go no contact especially if she's trying to rub things in your face it's not going to help your situation. I know how much you want her back, believe me I know, but sometimes you have to let go of what you want to do what's right. It's best to be concerned about yourself and make better changes in life now that you have this opportunity, try to look on the positive sides of things, you can only do your best and can only do so much. Best of luck my friend, everything will be okay and you'll find that perfect someone someday, believe me.

[blue_daisy]

I think she is trying to do or say things to make you jealous and to see your reactions. In my view that is very immature of her and you should just leave her alone. Trust me, I'm a girl and I have that urges to do that to my ex too when we break up but that would be self-degrading and disrespectful. I know I am better than that.

 

If you would go back being with her and things go bad again would you be able to stand her getting into fits like this? I suggest you just continue to leave her alone, don't show any emotions towards her. There is a high chance that she'll come and beg you again and say that she loves you. If need be, just firmly tell her that both of you are done, there is no going back. If she continues to bug you, just block her number and on any social media. Continue to be cold to her and she'll get the idea.

 

Emotionally you are still hurt and you need to heal. If she is the one who continues to hurt you I believe some distance between you and her will do both of you good.