joeyt Posted June 16, 2005 Posted June 16, 2005 I have never been so infatued with a girl ive known for such a short period of time. Theres this girl named Tia. We were in the same social organization on campus for an entire year, but we never spoke to each other beyond the occassional hi. Well, last month of school, she starts talking to me.. But we dont really start hanging out until the last two weeks. She made a real effort to get to know me, she invited me to a banquet, asked me to drink, study, constantly talked to me on the internet, phone etc. Shes perfect in every way. The problem is that i am transferring to another college next year, and she knows this. I was going to tell her how i felt the night before i left, but we didnt get a chance to see each other. Im trying to decide whether or not to tell her how i feel. This is where it gets complicated... ive only known her for 2 weeks, and in addition, i dont know if she was/is interested in me in the first place... I need some help.. what should i do? I know this sounds extremely juvenile.. but what are some other ways i can tell she likes me? please help..
Artscrafter Posted June 17, 2005 Posted June 17, 2005 As much as it sucks, it sounds like the best thing you can do is forget about her. It's regrettable, but if you're transferring colleges you'll almost never get to see her again. In theory, if you kept contact you could eventually get back together, post-college if necessary, but two weeks of sorta-getting to know each other isn't enough to hold out on that. Believe me, I'm having a hard enough time being away from my girlfriend of two weeks before school ended (knew her for longer before that) knowing that we'll be back together in the fall. Agonizing over this, not knowing whether you'll even ever see her again, isn't worth it.
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