JOkER2 Posted April 3, 2016 Posted April 3, 2016 My gf and I saw a movie then went out for drinks. I had too much. she got pissed off cuz I drove her and myself home. She thought I was too drunk. I did sober up by the time ready to drive but she didn't think so. I didn't even bother to walk her to her door I just dropped her off cuz I was so mad. You think it's over because of this. We've been dating a month
abby_tx Posted April 3, 2016 Posted April 3, 2016 My gf and I saw a movie then went out for drinks. I had too much. she got pissed off cuz I drove her and myself home. She thought I was too drunk. I did sober up by the time ready to drive but she didn't think so. I didn't even bother to walk her to her door I just dropped her off cuz I was so mad. You think it's over because of this. We've been dating a month How much did you drink and over what period of time? She should be pissed at herself as well. She could have told you not to drive, taken away your keys, called a taxi, etc. Instead she gets in a car with someone she thinks is drunk? That makes no sense.
mikeylo Posted April 3, 2016 Posted April 3, 2016 Don't drink and drive ?That would solve many issues personally and relationship wise. 3
d0nnivain Posted April 3, 2016 Posted April 3, 2016 It takes about 6-8 HOURS for your body to process alcohol so I you are lying to yourself when you claim you "sobered up" by the time you drove her home. I enjoy a few cocktails but the decision to drink & drive is one of the most selfish & reckless decisions you can make. You risked your life, her life & the lives of every other motorist & pedestrian on the road that night. She was a fool for getting in a car with you rather than then call a friend or take an Uber / Lyft. However, she has decided that you can't be trusted. So unless you can prove that you won't drink and drive again, she's perfectly justified in never going out with you again. 7
ExpatInItaly Posted April 3, 2016 Posted April 3, 2016 It could indeed be over. You showed you have poor judgement and you clearly still don't get it. So, you also don't have a lot of self-awareness. That's a turn-off for any woman. 5
losangelena Posted April 3, 2016 Posted April 3, 2016 If you were too drunk, why didn't she drive? Why didn't you uber or take a cab? There's no reason for that kind of behavior, not when you're responsible for yours and someone else's life. 3
kendahke Posted April 3, 2016 Posted April 3, 2016 My gf and I saw a movie then went out for drinks. I had too much. she got pissed off cuz I drove her and myself home. She thought I was too drunk. I did sober up by the time ready to drive but she didn't think so. I didn't even bother to walk her to her door I just dropped her off cuz I was so mad. You think it's over because of this. We've been dating a month What were you "so mad" about? That she didn't want a drunk driving her? I know for me, if the guy I was seeing for 1 month decided to get drunk and drive me, I wouldn't deal with him anymore. 1
xpaperxcutx Posted April 3, 2016 Posted April 3, 2016 I'm reminded of the analogy of a man getting angry because he got lost he had to listen to his girlfriend give him directions and telling him how to drive. This is a situation where the both of you need to sit down and understand where the other is coming from. If your girlfriend was angry it's because she was upset that you weren't sober to drive. Perhaps she was worried you guys would've gotten into accident. If you're angry, it's because you thought you were okay, but you felt that she wasn't seeing it from your point of view. Regardless, at least you guys got home safely. Just remember not to drink, next time if you knew you were the designated driver. Also, as someone else has mentioned, call a cab or uber. Spending a little money is better than ending up getting into an accident. Now, go and make nice.
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