stillafool Posted April 9, 2016 Posted April 9, 2016 (edited) I decided against telling her husband as you said it will likely come out at some point anyway and I focused on myself rather than him. I have blocked his number but he emailed me. I feel like everytime I feel a bit stronger something happens to push me back. What do you want from him? Is it just to admit he is seeing this OW? Edited April 9, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
BC1980 Posted April 9, 2016 Posted April 9, 2016 I decided against telling her husband as you said it will likely come out at some point anyway and I focused on myself rather than him. I have blocked his number but he emailed me. I feel like everytime I feel a bit stronger something happens to push me back. I think that's a good idea. Honestly, the only thing that will come from you telling the husband is that you will become more deeply involved. The best thing to do is become completely uninvolved. If you tell the husband, it might be fun for a minute (kinda like you are getting back at your ex), but, in the long term, you don't want to be tied to this. The ex or the husband might try to call you, and you will be curious about the outcome. You will be wondering what is going on and tempted to snoop. Best thing is to stay away. I also felt like every time I was moving on, something happened to set me back. It will pass at some point.
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