Eel751 Posted April 2, 2016 Posted April 2, 2016 We've been dating for 4 months. Guys, I'm think of ending it with him. I think it's weird that he texts his ex who has a bf about, "remember we did this,_____" like he told me he misses those memories with his ex gf. They were together for 3 months. He visited her and her family over break and they agreed to be friends. He told me she cheated on him in their relationship. Stuff has been happening lately I don't like. I snooped on his phone and saw he was talking to her about when they did all these things together. Also, the fact that we spend the weekends together and he said he wants to play Xbox all day today. It seems sketchy. We got breakfast today and he's like, "I have a long day of Xbox ahead of me." Like the fact that he has to restate that is weird. He kissed me goodbye and I told him to be good. He said "you too" and he kissed me a few times and said he loves me. We then went our separate ways. I called my friends and they think I should break up with him. Yesterday, he came to my room unannounced and knocked on my door. My friends said I should go to his room unannounced and say I left something in his room and just pick up my brush, sheets and shower shoes in his room and leave. Like if he has to make sure I'm not cheating because I haven't given him sex then what does that say about him? He cheating on me so he has to make sure I'm not cheating on him. Right? What do you think?
preraph Posted April 2, 2016 Posted April 2, 2016 I think if he's still hung up on his ex, this isn't going anywhere until he gives up and moves on in more ways than just keeping a girl around for sex. It sounds like you're both pretty young and maybe in school? If so, don't expect someone to settle down and be monogamous anytime soon. Maybe it can happen, but it's a little uncommon. Guys will juggle women all day long if someone will put up with it. If you're not getting enough out of the relationship, leave him behind and move on. This is the time of your life when you can always find another BF. Good luck.
Curiousroxy86 Posted April 2, 2016 Posted April 2, 2016 We've been dating for 4 months. Guys, I'm think of ending it with him. I think it's weird that he texts his ex who has a bf about, "remember we did this,_____" like he told me he misses those memories with his ex gf. They were together for 3 months. He visited her and her family over break and they agreed to be friends. He told me she cheated on him in their relationship. Stuff has been happening lately I don't like. I snooped on his phone and saw he was talking to her about when they did all these things together. Also, the fact that we spend the weekends together and he said he wants to play Xbox all day today. It seems sketchy. We got breakfast today and he's like, "I have a long day of Xbox ahead of me." Like the fact that he has to restate that is weird. He kissed me goodbye and I told him to be good. He said "you too" and he kissed me a few times and said he loves me. We then went our separate ways. I called my friends and they think I should break up with him. Yesterday, he came to my room unannounced and knocked on my door. My friends said I should go to his room unannounced and say I left something in his room and just pick up my brush, sheets and shower shoes in his room and leave. Like if he has to make sure I'm not cheating because I haven't given him sex then what does that say about him? He cheating on me so he has to make sure I'm not cheating on him. Right? What do you think? I don't think you would be wrong to break up with him. If you know you can't except a guy being friends with the ex then you would be doing yourself a favor by letting him go.
smackie9 Posted April 2, 2016 Posted April 2, 2016 Since his ex is a cheater, who's to say she won't cheat on her new BF with her ex. Your Bf's behavior is not appropriate for someone who is in a relationship....break up with him.
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