LucreziaBorgia Posted June 20, 2005 Posted June 20, 2005 I know exactly what I have to do, but it is so hard to do it because I am so afraid of losing him. You may want to think long and hard about what it is you are afraid of losing. You have to wonder what state your heart must be in to be afraid of losing a guy who has made it clear he doesn't want you in his life right now. I think what you are afraid of losing is your hope that one day this guy will love you like you want him to. Hope is the hardest thing to let go of, but once you do let go of it - you realize that this hope you have is what is actually holding you back from finding any real happiness. Hope can be a good thing, but it can also be the quicksand that drowns you as well.
ConfusedInOC Posted June 20, 2005 Posted June 20, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia You may want to think long and hard about what it is you are afraid of losing. You have to wonder what state your heart must be in to be afraid of losing a guy who has made it clear he doesn't want you in his life right now. I think what you are afraid of losing is your hope that one day this guy will love you like you want him to. Hope is the hardest thing to let go of, but once you do let go of it - you realize that this hope you have is what is actually holding you back from finding any real happiness. Hope can be a good thing, but it can also be the quicksand that drowns you as well. Once again, LB, well put.
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