Savannah Posted June 16, 2005 Posted June 16, 2005 does he pay attention to what you like? does he seem interested in your life?
Author what456 Posted June 16, 2005 Author Posted June 16, 2005 well, we use to date about 2 years ago. he remembers everything about me...everything i say, do, and also my scent LOL..so he says. i am just trying to figure out if there are stilll some feelings on his end. he is really wishy washy about things sometimes... he claims he still has all my stuff...the cards, presents, and text messages i have given him...i dont know..i love him and it's crazy!
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 16, 2005 Posted June 16, 2005 Keeping stuff, remembering stuff and telling you about it... yes, I'd say he likes you. If you still like him, then invite him for an ambiguous occasion - lunch or coffee, not a classic date. Flirt, touch him occasionally, compliment him and let him make a move.
Author what456 Posted June 16, 2005 Author Posted June 16, 2005 we actually have met up and it was awsome! he had a smile the whole time i saw him...and he kept asking me what i wanted if i was ok..etc. we even kissed...nice, slow, tender.....etc. (for the first time!) but i don't know if it is a one time thing for him or if he really means it....when i came back home from my trip he was nice but didn't seem to want to talk to me...like he was distant. any reasons why?
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 17, 2005 Posted June 17, 2005 Originally posted by what456 but i don't know if it is a one time thing for him or if he really means it....when i came back home from my trip he was nice but didn't seem to want to talk to me...like he was distant. any reasons why? Plenty of possibilities: he wasn't sure about you at that point, he had someone else in mind but doesn't now, he was tired, you came on strong and he wasn't sure how to take it, mars in the aspect of venus meant that it was an inauspicious moment for him to renew an old relationship... The only way you'll find out is to follow this up. But go slowly and watch out for red flags - if his interest is variable in the future, this is a bad sign. I hope you didn't need to hear that, but just in case
Author what456 Posted June 17, 2005 Author Posted June 17, 2005 Reluctant Romeo, Please explain what you mean. I know this guy really likes me. I am just trying to figure out what to do. i like him too...please help!
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 17, 2005 Posted June 17, 2005 Originally posted by what456 Please explain what you mean. Sure! Which bit isn't clear?
Author what456 Posted June 17, 2005 Author Posted June 17, 2005 "mars in the aspect of venus meant that it was an inauspicious moment for him to renew an old relationship... " Also, do guys get scared of falling for someone? the thing is RR is that i broke up with him two years ago because he was heart broken from a past ex. now he is over her..i know he still likes me..i think alot too because this weekend was awsome..i was a princess for a day. but now i am confused and it's bugging me.
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 17, 2005 Posted June 17, 2005 Originally posted by what456 "mars in the aspect of venus meant that it was an inauspicious moment for him to renew an old relationship... " This was a joke, to point out that all sorts of unexpected factors could be influencing him. In this case, a fake horoscope. Also, do guys get scared of falling for someone? Oh yes. Especially if they've had bad experiences. but now i am confused and it's bugging me. The best way to deal with the opposite sex IME, is to take it one day at a time. And judge their actions, not try to secondguess their motives, thoughts and feelings. If he behaves consistently nicely towards you, then go for it. Otherwise, be careful.
Author what456 Posted June 17, 2005 Author Posted June 17, 2005 thanks RR...really appreciate it. where are you from?
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 17, 2005 Posted June 17, 2005 Originally posted by what456 thanks RR...really appreciate it. where are you from? I'll pm you one time, when you have enough posts to do this
Author what456 Posted June 17, 2005 Author Posted June 17, 2005 ok, RR. do you think i should give up on him?
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 20, 2005 Posted June 20, 2005 Originally posted by what456 ok, RR. do you think i should give up on him? If you like him and if you think you stand a reasonable chance of resolving the issues which broke up the relationship the first time, I would say go for it. But take it slowly and don't invest too much emotional capital in this until you can see his intentions more clearly. Just do some light, friendly and fun dates, but not too often and not too heavy.
Author what456 Posted June 20, 2005 Author Posted June 20, 2005 Good advice RR! i will keep you updated. thanks for your help!
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 21, 2005 Posted June 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 Good advice RR! i will keep you updated. thanks for your help! My pleasure I look forward to hearing your news.
assillem8 Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 there is this guy who is my brother's friend but lately we've been talking online. he says that "i'm cute in his books" and he even offered to take me to the movies sometime and just today he gave me his number and asked for mine. i'm just not sure if he really likes me or if this is how he acts with all girls.
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