Jc396 Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 Interesting story with a guy who I met on tinder. He was pretty much my first match and for some reason I really liked this guy despite it being on tinder. Well we were texting for a few days and this guy honestly seemed too good to be true. He said he wanted to meet me so we ended up setting a time up to meet. Well this date was pretty much a disaster. He was drunk when I got there, he didn't recognize me, he was kinda a jerk the entire time. We planned to meet back up later that night and he blew me off. He texted me and apologized the next day, apparently he had been drinking too much to meet back with me. He hasn't texted me much since but he did add me on snapchat. After this I decided to delete my tinder and put more focus in myself rather dating. I noticed lately on snapchat he seemed to be going through a really rough time. Yesterday I decided to be a friend a message him on there and see how he is doing. We chatted briefly and he later asked me to hang out. I decided to go ahead and go as a friend cause I figured he wasn't into me like that. Well he was actually a lot more friendlier to me and I ended up having a good time. We went out to a bar and played pool then we went back to his place and watched a movie. While watching the movie he kissed me. I ended up staying the night and there was no sex involved. We kissed again when we woke up this morning and we parted ways because we both had to be at work this morning. Im new to dating and this is obviously not how it should go but I do like this guy and now Im trying to not get my hopes up thinking he may actually be into me too. What do I do or expect from anyone who has gone through something similar?
jen1447 Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 I'd be worried about the showing up drunk for the first date. Whatever his good qualities may be, that's a clear sign of someone who has trouble managing a relationship w/alcohol, and that would tend to be a huge issue in any relationship going forward. Sorry but I'd pass on this one.
LoveIsMyReligion Posted April 14, 2016 Posted April 14, 2016 He showed up drunk to your first date... If you're giving this guy another chance I think you really need to work on your standards. 1
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