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Hey. My ex break up with me after 4 years. She break up with me one Day and after two days she was on new year party with another guy but she told me she will be work on hotel. She lie. This guy is not a comepletely new guy for her. For 4 years I have a problem with This guy beacause he text to her for a long time. In This 4 years there was a time she met with This guy but back to me. Nów she told me that she want to be with him. Now it is a month after the break up. I have no contact with her for a few days. I still love her so much and that makes me insane. I want her back. What I should do guys?

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Sad, but you have to move on. I hate people like this. Jumping from one person to another.

 

You cannot control another person's actions and feelings. The only thing you need to do is move on.

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UPDATE today she text me : did you met with someone? And she calling me 2 Times i don't asnwer and don't reply to text What to do guys ?

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Ignore the hell out of her. That's what you do to heal. She wants the other guy so let her be with him. What you do is no longer her business!!! Best of luck!

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Unfortunately, if she left you for someone else, there are huge chances that will happen again and again - every single time she has the opportunity. The situation changed for her, and she might try to come back, but SHE didn't change. For someone to change that sort of behavior takes years, not a month. Unless you are okay going through this over and over, stay NC, heal, and move on.

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Four years? That guy is her male girlfriend. Wait until he sees her with someone else.

 

Don't answer her, she's not worth your trouble. In the end, you'll lose.

 

Four years is long enough to know for sure.

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Hi guys. My ex broke me up 3 months ago. She was with another men for 2,5 month. She live with him in small flat. Three weeks ago she call me crying and said that i'm the one, she loves me, she want have child with me. We met 3 days later. She kiss me and I was in heaven, then we had sex. We had sex for about 4 days then. Last 3 weeks was great. We have doing everything together. Then suddenly she told me that I'm not changing myself and she don't want to have contact with me. WTF world ?

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If this is the woman that was cheating on you during your 4 year relationship and decided to go be with the guy -- I suggest you grow a backbone and cut her from your life. You're acting like a complete doormat.

 

You're surprised at her behavior? Really? The many times she cheated on you and you're still confused? No lessons learned from her kicking you in the nuts for those many times? No self-respect to finally say enough? No self-awareness on your part to actually see her for what she is?

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She's lost any and all respect she had for you and treats you like an easy option when things go bad at home. You really seriously totally and utterly need to let this one go. Close the door behind her and lock it for good. You don't love who she is, you love who you want her to be... and she will never be that person. Accept it, you would never ever be able to trust her or feel truly happy were she to come back. You want the fantasy that you have made her out to be, not this cheating uncaring disrespectful person she is now. She'll never change, but you can.

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Hi guys. My ex broke me up 3 months ago. She was with another men for 2,5 month. She live with him in small flat. Three weeks ago she call me crying and said that i'm the one, she loves me, she want have child with me. We met 3 days later. She kiss me and I was in heaven, then we had sex. We had sex for about 4 days then. Last 3 weeks was great. We have doing everything together. Then suddenly she told me that I'm not changing myself and she don't want to have contact with me. WTF world ?

 

Its because you were a handy stop gap until she filled up her time with another guy again.

 

She speaks the words but doesn't walk the walk.

 

Ignore her and get her out of your life before you waste more time on her.

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Hi guys. My ex broke me up 3 months ago. She was with another men for 2,5 month. She live with him in small flat. Three weeks ago she call me crying and said that i'm the one, she loves me, she want have child with me. We met 3 days later. She kiss me and I was in heaven, then we had sex. We had sex for about 4 days then. Last 3 weeks was great. We have doing everything together. Then suddenly she told me that I'm not changing myself and she don't want to have contact with me. WTF world ?

 

The other guy that she was living with called her up and apologized; wanted her back. So, she went running back to him. You got used. And, instead of telling you how evil and shallow she is blames you. Saying that you didn't change. Basically, trying to make her decision all your fault.

 

If it were me, I would find out if she went running back to this guy. And if she did, then I would drop this guy a line on facebook saying, "Hey, look dude. I don't know what happened between the two of you. But, for the week she was gone, she was over here telling me that I'm the one she loves, she wants to have my kid and we had a LOT of sex. I just want you to know what kind of girl you're dealing with here. Take this as you will." and just carry on with life dude.

 

Chances are he won't respond to you. She'll have him believing that you're lying and just trying to cause trouble for them. But, you'll plant a seed of doubt in his head.

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If it were me, I would find out if she went running back to this guy. And if she did, then I would drop this guy a line on facebook saying, "Hey, look dude. I don't know what happened between the two of you. But, for the week she was gone, she was over here telling me that I'm the one she loves, she wants to have my kid and we had a LOT of sex. I just want you to know what kind of girl you're dealing with here. Take this as you will." and just carry on with life dude.

 

Instead of that, I'd carry on with my life from this very moment. I don't think it's a good idea to contact the guy at all. It's not your business what they're doing from now on. From what you told us, it doesn't seem like he's won the lottery or something.

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