Blinkstan86 Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 Alright here it goes. I have been working with this girl for almost two years now. I really liked her from the start as I got to know her. The problem was is that I already was going out with another girl who also worked with us. We broke up 8 months ago by the way and she doesn't work with us anymore. Since she's out of the picture and it's been a while since I have dated, I really want to ask this girl out. I just can't tell if she's interested. Here's some reasons why I DO think she's Interested. 1: she always laughs at my dumb jokes. 2: she always playfully hits or punches me. she will do this most of the time she come up to me. 3: I always catch her smiling at me every time we pass by each other. 4: when one of our other guy co-workers was gawking over a girl he really likes, she told us that she wished there was some guy that would talk about her like that. I don't know if she just wanted me to hear that or what. Anyway I don't know if these are signs if she's into me or if I'm just looking into this too much. Do girls give out these hints?
smudge21 Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 As someone who always gets burned when getting close to people who I have to work with, I'd say treat carefully. But then again, you've been here before so you probably already know the issues that work relationships can cause. Why not just ask her out, but in a friendly grab a coffee way first. Being at work, people often will gravitate towards others just to remove the sheer boredom of the day. This can often be seen as being over friendly and even flirting, when in reality it's more that we all need someone to talk to. So she may just be being super friendly and have no intention of taking it further... but... you won't know unless you ask. See how she is when you're outside of work and it's just the two of you. If she's still the same, not clock watching or talking about her hunky boyfriend and their six kids, then you can decide whether to progress to dating. Just be wary of the work thing though.
BrocasHelm Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 Her behavior could be flirty, yes... or it could be not. Been in the same situation, she was being flirty, I asked her out, turned out she was not interested. Oh well, didn't hurt to ask. If she's an intelligent girl she won't blame you for asking if she's not interested, so nothing to lose, lad.
wildfiremichael Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 Hi BlinkStan It seems to me that you have good chemistry together and an idea for start dating this girl, you could tell her about this cool place/thing/store whatever. "hey do you know Joes burgers?" she says no "its this cool burger joint where they make the most tasty homemade burgers" and move on to another topic. then later mention that you are going there later in the week and that she should totally come, she'll love it! "hey, so i'm actually going to Joes burger later this week (or later today) you should totally come, you'll love it!" now depending on how much she likes, she will go with you or not or another time. Good luck and have fun!
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