Steelseries1 Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 Hey, I started dating this girl last Saturday since then I was fortunate enough to take her out 2 other times. Anyway I see a lot of potential and she is defiently intrested but it's obvious sometime that her options are still open, no biggie though, we are jus getting to know each other. I do wonder however what would be some good convo starters and topics. We've defiently covered the basics but I want to try to get things away from her past so much and maybe begin to talk about us or just be able to laugh and enjoy each other's time. I've never been much of a convo starter but I can keep one up and she is defiantly a talker too. However our last encounter, which was a spur of the moment decision since she was in my area, was a little dull but still nice. She was on her phone a lot and there was at times just silence. I do believe this did not irritate her, however because she said we were just relaxing and eating. Please help!
thecrucible Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 I think she should make an effort too - not just you. You don't want to be leading conversation with someone who is on their phone the whole time. Personally I am stuck for words from time to time but I like to ask people I've just met about their hobbies, then you can ask how they got into a particular hobby and discover their passions in life. If they lead a fairly busy life, then there will be something new for them to talk about every so often to keep it fresh. Also google "questions for couples" and you might get some ideas for conversation starters. 2
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