GildedLily Posted April 2, 2016 Posted April 2, 2016 Probably or probably not. I doubt he's that hurt, but I do know his demeanor towards me changed after I indirectly rejected him. I guess my real question is giving him a note in the gym an okay move, or too teenager like? Like I said, it's a busy gym and very hard to flirt there. I'm too shy to strike a conversation to someone I'm attracted to, but not shy if he initiates the conversation, which at this point, he will won't do anymore. I honestly think if he was super interested he would've approached you, you said he's really attractive so he would have the confidence to make the first move. The stuff you did that you think put him off, I doubt he even noticed. Men do not pick up on verbal hints very well much less which gym equipment you left or stayed on. You said you get attention everywhere you go, ask yourself why wouldn't this guy be approaching you then? I would hate for you to chase someone with low level interest, stick with the ones actually giving you attention ( ie; talking to you first) 2
Author fosterrd Posted April 13, 2016 Author Posted April 13, 2016 Just an little update. He stopped coming to the gym during his normal schedule. I had a feeling this would happen, but just didn't think it actually would since it's not like he asked me out directly and got rejected directly, so I didn't think he really had anything to be embarrassed about. I ruined it. I had three chances to redeem myself, and ruined it. Every time I saw him, I kept getting nervous and acted like I was avoiding him. My negative body language just told him I wasn't into him and I'm sure he feels rejected. I was hoping he showed up and I could work up the courage to be more comfortable around him, then speak to him, but instead, he stopped showing up.
jen1447 Posted April 13, 2016 Posted April 13, 2016 Or maybe he's got a different shift at work. It's not automatically about you, and he may well come back on your time. Just be ready to pounce if he does.
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