introverted1 Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 You can also get a Google Voice number and then either let it go to a special mailbox or forward it to your cell phone. If you need to call back, you use the app to mask your number.
TXGuy Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 If the d-ck pic comes from a certain phone number, all the girl has to do is take a snapshot of the number and the pic, and post: John Doe sent me this. His number: 555-1234 Watch out ladies! The guy is cooked. Watch out here . I think revenge porn laws might apply here. I know they were originally designed to punish men for posting naked pictures of women, but the text is gender neutral, so they can also prosecute women.
Jj66 Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 It's the usual thing in my circle is to exchange numbers after you have agreed to meet. There is usually an exchange of texts to confirm the number and then at the time if the meeting one texts saying I'm here and with a reply saying I'm at the bar or wherever. It's not universal but it's so common that it's generally predictable. Personally, I've *never* sent a dick pick or requested a boob shot. And I have a beautiful cock, thank you very much. I also love breasts as much as the next guy. But some things should be discovered in person. It's so much hotter to discover things about each other in the heat of passion.
Author faithfully Posted March 31, 2016 Author Posted March 31, 2016 ok I have read some comments on here, some are saying wait til he arranges a date, some are saying if it feels right, even when I feel it feels right to give it after they seem decent. and whats this google thing, I don't get it?? well the guy from okcupid after that stupid text which I ignored, so he texted me today, I asked him how work went if it was alright his reply was: yes it was good, just gonna have a cheeky 10min alone to knock one out, urghh I'm gonna be sick. I just blocked his ass, idiot
AMJ Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 LOL I can't help but laugh at your frustration. Your issue isn't really about when to give out your number, but why are guys constantly taking things to a sexual level before you've even met in person, whilst you want to be cutesy and old-fashioned and take your time. I have to agree that Tinder is the worst place for you to shop around for a guy and spend your time. Just delete the app and move on. It's nothing about you that's causing men to send dick pics or get sexual right off the bat. Tinder is instant gratification for men and sex. I don't think many people on there are actually interested in taking the effort to schedule proper dates. It's more like, let's send each other dirty pics and sext for awhile, until we both randomly happen to meet up late one night and hook up. I will say that sometimes it's possible to steer the conversation back to where you want. So if a guy suddenly crosses a line, you can just tell him to knock it off, and he may respect you for that. I think at least a few guys out there are cluelessly venturing into creep-like behavior and will cut it out if they genuinely want to meet you.
AMJ Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 Dick pics just aren't what they used to be. (And to answer t_s, ppl do that kinda stuff just bc they get horned up by it.) What did they used to be??
Author faithfully Posted March 31, 2016 Author Posted March 31, 2016 LOL I can't help but laugh at your frustration. Your issue isn't really about when to give out your number, but why are guys constantly taking things to a sexual level before you've even met in person, whilst you want to be cutesy and old-fashioned and take your time. I have to agree that Tinder is the worst place for you to shop around for a guy and spend your time. Just delete the app and move on. It's nothing about you that's causing men to send dick pics or get sexual right off the bat. Tinder is instant gratification for men and sex. I don't think many people on there are actually interested in taking the effort to schedule proper dates. It's more like, let's send each other dirty pics and sext for awhile, until we both randomly happen to meet up late one night and hook up. I will say that sometimes it's possible to steer the conversation back to where you want. So if a guy suddenly crosses a line, you can just tell him to knock it off, and he may respect you for that. I think at least a few guys out there are cluelessly venturing into creep-like behavior and will cut it out if they genuinely want to meet you. sorry don't remember saying I was on tinder. I am not on tinder. I'm on okcupid, match.com and Christian dating. ive told that guy many time I don't like it and don't appreciate it, he says sorry but then carries on, ive blocked his ass now anyways.
jen1447 Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 What did they used to be?? Bigger and better. (Actually they just used to carry more weight when everyone didn't send them to you all the time. ) 1
truth_seeker Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 ive told that guy many time I don't like it and don't appreciate it, he says sorry but then carries on, ive blocked his ass now anyways. People who display a pattern of saying sorry and continuing the behavior are slime. It's a tactic to try and break your walls down. The sorry is a speed bump. Once they cross over it, it's back to normal speed, ie, getting what they want. 4
Author faithfully Posted March 31, 2016 Author Posted March 31, 2016 People who display a pattern of saying sorry and continuing the behavior are slime. It's a tactic to try and break your walls down. The sorry is a speed bump. Once they cross over it, it's back to normal speed, ie, getting what they want. yeah I know, I'm just thinking maybe I gave my number out to him too soon, should have waited maybe 3 more days before giving it, when you think they ok, they interested and want the same stuff as you ie relationship getting to know somebody, they come out with bull crap like that after ive told him politely I don't appreciate it.
Jersey born raised Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 (edited) Sorry, wrong thread Edited March 31, 2016 by Jersey born raised
Jersey born raised Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 (edited) Guys can be very clueless and can take decades to grow up. Sometimes I think that is why sometimes I think younger woman go for an older guy. Sometimes it is not just daddy issues. As to dck pics, really? Is that all they got? I meet someone I suggest meeting at a Sunday Brunch and then go our separate ways. Nice one go for around 20 to 30 dollars ahead around here. As to sexting, I think Rodan's "the kiss" with a simple note that sayssaw this and thought of you" is a winner as an ice breaker. Your thoughts ? Edited March 31, 2016 by Jersey born raised
Jabron1 Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 I asked him how work went if it was alright his reply was: yes it was good, just gonna have a cheeky 10min alone to knock one out I'm actually at a loss for how stupid that is. He's got to be taking the piss. F*cks that guy gives = zero You said that you're also on a Christian dating site. You can't be getting these types of messages on there too.... right? As to dck pics, really? Is that all they got? I meet someone I suggest meeting at a Sunday Brunch and then go our separate ways. Nice one go for around 20 to 30 dollars ahead around here. A woman offering to meet me for Sunday brunch is like the female equivalent of sending a d*ck pic. 1
Author faithfully Posted March 31, 2016 Author Posted March 31, 2016 I'm actually at a loss for how stupid that is. He's got to be taking the piss. F*cks that guy gives = zero You said that you're also on a Christian dating site. You can't be getting these types of messages on there too.... right? A woman offering to meet me for Sunday brunch is like the female equivalent of sending a d*ck pic. I know, couldn't believe that after I told him numerously I don't appreciate conversation like that he carried on, I just blocked his ass, when on okcupid he was saying he wanted a relationship and all that saying he wants to take me out on a date and when I gave him my number starting with his rude comments th Christian dating I'm not getting messages like that, thank god but not seen anybody there that I'm attracted to yet.
truth_seeker Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 his reply was: yes it was good, just gonna have a cheeky 10min alone to knock one out What does the above mean? I'm in America
truth_seeker Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 A woman offering to meet me for Sunday brunch is like the female equivalent of sending a d*ck pic. :lmao:
jen1447 Posted March 31, 2016 Posted March 31, 2016 his reply was: yes it was good, just gonna have a cheeky 10min alone to knock one out What does the above mean? I'm in America He's gonna jerk off. 1
Author faithfully Posted April 1, 2016 Author Posted April 1, 2016 He's gonna jerk off. Yep exactly that but I didn't need to know
Toodaloo Posted April 1, 2016 Posted April 1, 2016 Thanks for all your input!!! This guy I started talking to on okcupid, 32 got his own business and been single for over a year, when chatting to him on okcupid told me he was looking after a relationship and I thought ok great seems decent, then later that day asked me for my number I gave it to him, he rang and had a nice chat, seems decent. Then we started talking about our comparison on there, then last night when I said I'm going to bed and good night he said it back then sent me this: Mmm think I'll have my naughty thought over you tonight in which I didn't answer and even today not replied but just though ugh I don't want to know Like WTF when you think they decent and want the same he is sending me **** like that I think you are being a bit precious/ prude. Men have penises and most are rather proud of them regardless of the amount of dik pics you do or do not get. One of the greatest things you can say to a man is that you admire/ like/ worship his penis. When guys do this you can 1. ignore it (and them if it offends you) 2. yank that puppy back to heal and tell him to cut it out until its more appropriate. Fact is that if you do not exchange numbers then you will probably not meet these guys. Yes you are going to get some jerks and mismatches but you will also miss out on great guys too if you do not open yourself up to taking a chance. So my suggestion. Yank that puppy back to heal. Be blunt, direct and straight shooting. If you are not happy with their behaviour, tell them and move on. Just be aware that guys can be a bit uncouth in showing their attraction. You need to show them what you do and do not find acceptable. Personally I would have ignored the text and waited until he sent something more appropriate to respond to. Either that or send something sarcastic about getting an RSI injury or his special sock needing cleaning so he should behave. For me a bit of daft flirting is not unacceptable and that text would not bother nor shock me in the slightest. Its just a "meh" trying it on type text. If they do not listen then just delete their number and block it. Simples. Its not rocket science. As for when to give your number. When you feel safe and you want to meet them. If you are not bothered about meeting or have any hairs on the back of your neck standing up or any worries or concerns do not do it.
Toodaloo Posted April 1, 2016 Posted April 1, 2016 Yep exactly that but I didn't need to know Then why ask what it means if you already know?
jen1447 Posted April 1, 2016 Posted April 1, 2016 Yep exactly that but I didn't need to know Then why ask what it means if you already know? ^ She was confirming, truth_seeker asked. 1
losangelena Posted April 1, 2016 Posted April 1, 2016 With Christian dating I'm not getting messages like that, thank god but not seen anybody there that I'm attracted to yet. Ahh, the eternal conundrum. The nice guys just aren't interesting.
Toodaloo Posted April 1, 2016 Posted April 1, 2016 Ahh, the eternal conundrum. The nice guys just aren't interesting. Bad boy syndrome...
Author faithfully Posted April 1, 2016 Author Posted April 1, 2016 Then why ask what it means if you already know? I was saying that I didn't need to know he wanted to knock one out, there was no need for him to tell me that. I did ignore the first rude comment he made for a day, then he started asking how I was, making a decent conversation, it was when I asked him how his day went, he then replied with another rude message. I've already told him I didn't find them comments appropriate and he apologized and said he wouldn't do it again but he did the second time in which I blocked him. As for the Christian dating, I've not found someone I'm interested in chatting to, they either too old or live far away, old as in 40ish, 50 and I'm only 29
jen1447 Posted April 1, 2016 Posted April 1, 2016 Plenty of wolf-in-sheep's-clothing 'Christians' hiding amongst the Christian sheep tho. Never seen anybody who loves to sin more than a Christian. 5
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