ianna Posted March 29, 2016 Posted March 29, 2016 So long story short! He doesn't live in my country and I've seen him already for 3-4 times in which we've spent like 3-4 days together in a row. I've came back now because of him. My friend lives here too. So I've told him i am visiting her. 2 weeks ago he has told me that he was thinking and that he wants to move to my country for his business. So I've decided to come and talk to him about it. I don't know if there reason was me or wtf? He was happy when I've told him I am coming back and told me we could meet. Couple of times he mentioned we can meet the day I come and 2 days after because he has like a day or two off. I've said great. I've came here on sunday and we've met that evening. He was the one always texting me where am I, did I land and stuff. He came to my room at 21:00 and left the next morning (moday) because he had to work. Meanwhile we went for a walk first, then we've came back to my room and just chilled watching TV shows. All we did was hugged and held hands for a couple of hours. Later we started to make out and had sex and went to sleep. When he woke up he was late for work a bit and he told me we can meet a day after tomorrow (today) that he is probably having days off so he could move in untill thursday. I am leaving on friday. He told me he loved me before sex and everything and that he likes me too much, because I am great person. I didn't comment that much. i've just smiled. So I've waited for a day and tried to call him today if he was coming or not. His phone was off. I knew he was working. 20 minutes later I've told him it was me since i was roaming and to let me know if we are seeing each other today. He didn't reply and he was online! Now I am pissed and feel like and idiot. I've called my friend and she told me he was a dick. I did hear he was arguing with his boss when he was leaving for his job from my room. I am staying here for 2 more days, leaving on friday. I am tinking of not contacting him at all. Then again I want to talk to him, because he is the one always pushing things and trying. Should I text this guy also tomorrow evening or not at all? Part of me can't let this go "unfinished" I was thinking of texting him "Look I am leaving in two days and I'd really like to see you before I leave...because I like you" I have nothing to loose? Or should I just do nothing?
Gemma1 Posted March 29, 2016 Posted March 29, 2016 You haven't been needy yet, but don't message him anything else. He got the message already. If he's interested, he will contact you.
Author ianna Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 OK, I wasn't needy. But somehow I can't let this go... Is it too pathetic to give someone another chance and just text him 'there is something I want to tell you before I leave, are you free?" Like tomorrow evening (today in 18 hours) or on thursday morning if he doesn't reply. And if he doesn't say anything to just bloody let it all go?
smackie9 Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 It sounds to me he is a little involved with work and to just leave it. Don't let your world revolve around him. Go find something to do, like dinner with the girlies, maybe some drink and dancing.
hippychick3 Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 OK, I wasn't needy. But somehow I can't let this go... Is it too pathetic to give someone another chance and just text him 'there is something I want to tell you before I leave, are you free?" Like tomorrow evening (today in 18 hours) or on thursday morning if he doesn't reply. And if he doesn't say anything to just bloody let it all go? Yes, that is too pathetic and needy. Let him contact you and then you can decide if he waited to long to get back in touch.
Author ianna Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 Maybe you are all right as my best friend, The thing is that I am just feeling sad and I think we will not meet and have a chance to talk. And that when I leave we will like be in touch and things wil go in circles. I won't wait this guy for a couple of months to move to my city for himself and let us keep in touch because he is like sure he will see me and move. I don't function like this. I have my life when I come back and I want to move on. I don't want him like to keep making plans and like stringing me along for the next couple of months and eventually come here. Then what? But ok. I am leaving him alone, I've tried my best.
Author ianna Posted March 30, 2016 Author Posted March 30, 2016 I am thinking now, I guess writing helps when I reread my thoughts.. The fact is, if he managed to come and spend 5 hours with me, then sleeping for 4 and going to work half dead. If he cares and is interested he will do it again no matter if he has a day ot two off or he is working 12 h per day. If he doesn't then he was never into me that much or if he doesn't even reply. I think if he is normal that he would at least say he can't make it at all. But hey! Everybody has like two hours if they want to see each other. It's up to me to decide if he was an ******* and meet. I did my best,
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