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Got myself into a bit of an awkward situation...

 

I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now and I've come to realise that we just aren't right together. I have tried to make things work because she is a lovely person, treats me with so much respect

the only issue is she's the exact opposite to me and we both want/need different things.

 

Tonight, I decided I was going to call things off between us, However she expressed that she does have strong feelings for me and I've been a coward and couldn't face her to tell her I don't feel the same as she does.

I know this is wrong and I am going to end things tomorrow.

 

The problem that I have is that we have slept with each other quite a few times and she's had a pretty rough time in the past with men just using her for one thing.

 

I'm worried that I'll come across as that type of man when infact I'm not! I honestly do find her extremely attractive and we do have sexual chemistry, I just do not strong enough feelings to make something more permanent.

 

I honestly thing that this would be much easier if we hadn't of had sex so early, I do regret it and believe sex does complicate things in my opinion.

 

Any advice, do you agree that sex can complicate things, Am I an *******?:lmao:

 

Cheers :)

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Breaking up means you don't have to worry about how she feels about you. If she's worried that guys go out with her for the sole purpose of getting laid, then she should change her sexual behavior. It's not your problem.

 

Dragging out the inevitable and making it worse because you're a coward is your problem.

Edited by mightycpa
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