Blinkstan86 Posted March 29, 2016 Posted March 29, 2016 Alright here it goes. I have been working with this girl for almost two years now. I really liked her from the start as I got to know her. The problem was is that I already was going out with another girl who also worked with us. We broke up 8 months ago by the way and she doesn't work with us anymore. Since she's out of the picture and it's been a while since I have dated, I really want to ask this girl out. I just can't tell if she's interested. Here's some reasons why I DO think she's Interested. 1: she always laughs at my dumb jokes. 2: she always playfully hits or punches me. she will do this most of the time she come up to me. 3: I always catch her smiling at me every time we pass by each other. 4: when one of our other guy co-workers was gawking over a girl he really likes, she told us that she wished there was some guy that would talk about her like that. I don't know if she just wanted me to hear that or what. Anyway I don't know if these are signs if she's into me or if I'm just looking into this too much. One last thing I have to say. I actually did ask her to go hiking with me a couple months ago. She said yes and then I asked her to write her number down. I texted her later and I got no reply. I never brought that up to her again. The thing is I don't know if I texted the right number or not because a couple weeks ago she Facebooked messaged me and told me she didn't have my number and wanted me to cover a shift for her. And she's definitely the type of girl who would at least text me back an excuse not to go hiking or something. I thought it was just kind of weird that I got no reply. Especially since we work together and are forced to see each other at work. Even after the whole text thing, she still gives me these signs I said up above. And with those signs, I've noticed she only uses those on me. I guess my question is does she seem into me? And if so, how do I go about asking her out? Again... Thanks!
smackie9 Posted March 29, 2016 Posted March 29, 2016 The only way to find out if she is interested is to ask her out. That's how it works. Keep things simple, don't over think.
thecrucible Posted March 29, 2016 Posted March 29, 2016 It's hard for me to tell whether she is just a flirt or her interest is genuine. It's certainly weird that she didn't text you back but if the number had been wrong, she could have hit you up on Facebook at that point about the hiking trip. The only way to really tell is to ask her to do something one-on-one and see how she responds, maybe a casual drink after work if you both happen to drink.
truth_seeker Posted March 30, 2016 Posted March 30, 2016 She got the text. She chose not to respond. She might have gotten nervous, or unsure how to reply so she just chose to ignore it. That's how some girl's deal with things. Take the advice of the others above and ask her out. Maybe a direct call instead of a text or do it in person when you see her at work. If you want to know, you got to put yourself out there. As others on this forum have told me: fortune favors the bold.
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