HoongD Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 My ex just started up his own business and he was always busy. It bothered me cause we rarely meet and he never whatsapp me first. One day he's sorry that he has been ignoring me, and there are a lot of things going on his mind. He didn't want to text me as he should as my boyfriend, it should be because he missed me or thought of me. He liked me and it's good to spend time together but the feeling of being in each other's life was missing then. I was upset cause' I have wasted my love on a guy who hasn't cared about me a little. So I broke up, I didn't give him a chance to explain even though the day after he called and said we need to talk. Now 3 weeks later Im regreting that I didn't try to make it work. I didn't sympathize and understand what he is going through, for a start up it must be hard for him. I miss him everyday, causing me distracted and headache. No news from him since then so I guess he doesn't miss me at all. Should I make another try and call him? I don't want to regret about the thing I didn't do, but I also not want to hurt myself if he says he's tired of me already.
sandylee1 Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 If you discussed your concerns with him during the relationship and nothing changed. .... then I don't see the point in contacting him now. I think it's fair to say that his priority was setting up his business and he had little to no time for you. How old are you and how long were you together?
basil67 Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 I think it's safe to assume he's now giving 100% concentration to the new business. You made the right decision - trust yourself.
Author HoongD Posted March 28, 2016 Author Posted March 28, 2016 If you discussed your concerns with him during the relationship and nothing changed. .... then I don't see the point in contacting him now. I think it's fair to say that his priority was setting up his business and he had little to no time for you. How old are you and how long were you together? I'm 24 and he's 32. We just be together for 6 months and this is the fastest relationship I ever had. I guess I am too childish for him to be together... He might need a more mature girlfriend?
Author HoongD Posted March 28, 2016 Author Posted March 28, 2016 I think it's safe to assume he's now giving 100% concentration to the new business. You made the right decision - trust yourself. Thanks...I hope I made a right choice too
sandylee1 Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 I'm 24 and he's 32. We just be together for 6 months and this is the fastest relationship I ever had. I guess I am too childish for him to be together... He might need a more mature girlfriend? I guess at that age he's trying to get his future and career sorted out ..... which isn't a bad thing at all... but it doesn't sound like he could even make any effort to spend much time with you. I wouldn't say you were too immature without knowing you .... but sometimes the timing just isn't right in relationships. 6 months isn't really a long time TBH. Prior to him starting the business how was your relationship? Was he a good boyfriend?
Author HoongD Posted March 28, 2016 Author Posted March 28, 2016 I guess at that age he's trying to get his future and career sorted out ..... which isn't a bad thing at all... but it doesn't sound like he could even make any effort to spend much time with you. I wouldn't say you were too immature without knowing you .... but sometimes the timing just isn't right in relationships. 6 months isn't really a long time TBH. Prior to him starting the business how was your relationship? Was he a good boyfriend? Thanks for reading and keep replying me When I met him he already set up his business for like 5 months, then recently he started to expand it and got busier I guess. But I don't know much as he didn't want to discuss work matter, even I wanted to hear it so I could understand what going on in his life. He was great at first, very nice guy and always find time for me. Few days before we broke up, he canceled a business meeting to have dinner together, but he was late an hour (as he usually does). I didn't mind actually and never complained about him being late coz I knew he's working. I mean....I don't know. It's just like one day he woke up and decided it didn't matter whether I'm in his life or not..
bolase Posted March 29, 2016 Posted March 29, 2016 If he was the right guy for you, you wouldn't be questioning everything and wanting to break up, or feeling abandoned. With the right guy you would not even need to ask us because he would make you feel valued. You made the right decision. If you try to ask for him back, then you will regret it. It's okay to miss someone and wonder what might have been. But trust me, you deserve to happy in a relationship and not with someone - however nice - who causes you to worry.
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