Gary Ingham Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 My partner and I were married 5 years ago and before that we dated for 3 years. I was 33 and he was 18 in 2008. Now I am 41 and he is 25, He is a nice guy, but he loves to bottle things up and never shares with me, he is smart professionally and academically; however, he is unintentionally submissive to me, he always cuts me off, he is also very stubborn, he doesn't like to be told wrong. well, I love him, because he looks after me well, I don't have to worry about anything, I look after the house and study. Due to my upbringing, I believe marriage is holy, I rather tolerate him than separate, after 6 years of relationship, he started to grow up and acknowledge his issues, I told him I don't want live in any fancy house, have a lot of money, I just need him to share with me, don't bottle it up, and eat healthily. Currently, I am head of department and he is the staff of the year in his financial company. We are financially stable. Life starts to change. 2014, we broke up, he said he loves me but there was no chemistry between us. He was sad, so I moved to another room for a while as we both agreed, when my mom visited we moved back in the same room again. Now 2016, we broke up again, he said he wanted some space, and he wanted something new, he said he is depressed with job, and a lot of responsibilities, he worked for 3 jobs before, and I am his first partener, but still wants to be my friends. Now, he knows some random on certain dating sites, he has been staying at this random person's home for almost 2 weeks, Saturday or Sunday, I barely can see him, he said there was no sex involved just play games, I am confused what's going on in his head? When I said its my fault, I am not good enough, he mentioned that it's him, he changed. I am so disappointed right now Thanks
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