7675 Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 So there's this girl... We're both students in university. I got her number a week ago and we've been chatting over the phone. I hung out with her, in her room, a few days ago, and yesterday she came over to my room and we hung out again. She's cool and I want to try and move things in a more romantic direction. I know she enjoys my company. We laugh a lot and are generally very relaxed around each other, even after only a week of knowing each other. Based on the attention she's given me in such a short time, I assume that she likes me (or is atleast interested). Then again, maybe she's just friendly like that. I'm just not too sure what to do: be straight and ask her out? or just keep things as they are and see how they go?
itstoni Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 So there's this girl... We're both students in university. I got her number a week ago and we've been chatting over the phone. I hung out with her, in her room, a few days ago, and yesterday she came over to my room and we hung out again. She's cool and I want to try and move things in a more romantic direction. I know she enjoys my company. We laugh a lot and are generally very relaxed around each other, even after only a week of knowing each other. Based on the attention she's given me in such a short time, I assume that she likes me (or is atleast interested). Then again, maybe she's just friendly like that. I'm just not too sure what to do: be straight and ask her out? or just keep things as they are and see how they go? She was interest from the start. You should of made a move when she was in your room. She was there for a reason. Start with light kino with her then escalate from there to a kiss. 1
Empire87 Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 Girls don't invite you to their room or go to yours just because they wanna be pals. She likes you. Make a move ASAP. Next time you should invite her to come hang out. Sit on your bed/couch and watch a movie or show and initiate contact / kiss. Hold her hand as you sit, place your arm around her or let her lay on your chest as you watch, put your hand on her leg, lean in and kiss her cheek, then stay there till she turns to look at you and then kiss her. Definitely don't go much longer without establishing some kind of romantic link. If you don't kiss her soon, she'll start thinking you're not interested or it becomes awkward.
Author 7675 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Posted April 12, 2016 So, an update on my situation... A day after the original post, I asked her out. She told me that she was dating someone. I found it a little odd given how much attention she had given me, but I left it. We carried on as usual. A few days later, the whole dating thing was brought up again and she told me that she was hasty by saying she's with someone. She said they met up a few times, but it was nothing serious and she left it. She told me a few things like how she prefers to be friends with someone before getting serious. Anyway, we've been hanging out and chatting more and more lately. Often she initiates. I don't even have to invite her to my room or any of that, she's happy just inviting herself over. Since she told me that she's single, I want to ask her out again. But I can't get over the fact that I already have and she didn't really reciprocate. She never gave me a flat out "no" but still, I didnt get a yes. If she liked me that way, wouldn't she have brought it up? Like "Hey, how about we go out to lunch like you suggested" or something like that. Not really sure how to proceed
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