Rcc117 Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 I was dating someone for 1.5 years n we broke up around a month ago. I went NC for 3 weeks and broke NC yesterday bc my ex gf friend requested me on fb, then blocked me when I didn't accept, then unblocked me. I guess she was trying to get my attention which worked. I texted her saying is anything wrong n we ended up having a nice honest conversation about the reasons why we broke up. I haven't seen her be that open in a long while. I asked her if she wanted us to keep talking and she was ok with it as long we talked about friendly topics n that we "not jump into anything quickly". We talked some more n caught up n talked like we were old friends for a bit..but then I stopped bc it was sat night I didn't know if she had plans n quite frankly I was scared to be hurt bc when we broke up I was devasted. She told me she misses talking to me. she sends heart emoticons. She knows we can't be just friends bc I was the most serious relationship she's ever had (i helped her thru a lot of emotional issues) n it's only been 3 weeks of NC b4 we started talking again. She also gets super jealous that I've been going out a lot n meeting new people n also bc my ex b4 her friended me on fb. She also checked up on me with a mutual friend asking how I was. So I guess my question is can this actually lead somewhere good? A lot of the issues that caused the breakup are gone, being that I was in the middle of divorce n still living with my exwife. I really love her but I'm so scared to be hurt again n I don't want this to control my life again like it used to but I still want to give our relationship on more shot. I'm just not sure if she's leading me on...or keeping an open mind or what...
ashley1992 Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 wow sounds like a lot. i guess u know the road and the issues that came with her, the question is are u prepared to go through it again? sometimes people (like myself) can be blinded by the feeling of love. Yes u love her, but with love comes, respect, loyalty, time, honesty etc. personally, i would just be mature about it and be friendly, but i would go down that path again, simply because i knew wat it was like before. i would like to keep my heart safe
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