WhomiHide Posted June 16, 2005 Posted June 16, 2005 you know what I don't get? People on here want their ex back, then ppl on here say move on People want NC to heal and other's want it to get their ex back....but i think a few ppl on here give BAD advice.... SEE everyone says one thing MOVE ON! maybe thats why we are all unhappy on here cause we are leaving something behind....and then i sit here and ask myself "but wait, didn't she kill my heart, didn't she stab my brain"..YES she did..so why do i want her back...why doesn anyone want their BAD ex back....thats because i think we are thinking we can't get better...and thats because when the broke up with us they made us feel like **** so they can feel better....ahahahahhaha those a**h***s are now if not later will be feeling what i and alicia keys call KARMA! ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Weren't you the one who said that you don't want me anymore, And how you need your space, and give the keys back to your door? And how I cried and tried and tried to make you stay with me. But still you said that love was gone and that I had to leave. (Now you) {Talkin' 'bout a family.} (Now you) {Sayin' I complete your dream.} (Now you) {Sayin' I'm your everything.} {You're confusing me, what you say to me.} Don't play with me, don't play with me. 'Cause (What goes around comes around; What goes up must come down.) Now who's cryin,' desirin' to come back to me? (What goes around comes around; What goes up must come down.) Now who's cryin,' desirin' to come back? I remember when I was sittin' home alone, Waitin' for you 'Til three o'clock in the morn. And when you came home you'd always had some sorry excuse, And explainin' to me, like I'm was some kind of a fool. I sacrificed the things I wanted to do things for you. But when it's time to do for me, you never come through. (Now you) {Wanna be a part of me.} (Now you) {Have so much to say to me.} (Now you) {Wanna make time for me.} {What you do to me, you're confusin' me.} Don't play with me, don't play with me. 'Cause (What goes around comes around; What goes up must come down.) Now who's cryin,' desirin' to come back to me? (What goes around comes around; What goes up must come down.) Now who's cryin,' desirin' to come back? I remember when I was sittin' home alone, Waitin' for you 'Til three o'clock in the morn, Night after night, knowin' somethin' goin' on. Wasn't home before I be goin', goin' gone. Lord knows it wasn't easy, believe me. Never thought you'd be the one that would deceive me And never do what you supposed to do. No need to hose me, fool, 'cause I'm over you. 'Cause (What goes around comes around; What goes up must come down.) Now who's cryin,' desirin' to come back to me? (What goes around comes around; What goes up must come down.) Gotta stop tryin' to come back to me. (What goes around comes around; What goes up must come down.) It's called karma, baby, And it goes around. (What goes around comes around; What goes up must come down.) Now who's cryin,' desirin' to come back to me? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- what do you all think about this song? why do they say" please dont hurt me or abandone me, please dont leave me, please love me..." and when you do they turn around and do eactly to you what they said they dont want you to do to them? WTF is that, they leave you pulling out your heart saying "hey you forgot something"...and then the walk away with someone else....who looks like they are gonna hurt them? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- any one here is a Pisces, does anyone on here have bad relationships with any Pisces?
Humbledog Posted June 16, 2005 Posted June 16, 2005 From what I have see in the short time I have had the pleasure of the LS experience is that there are alot of walking wounded around here!!! We have all suffered losses and the pain of lost love can be excruciating!!! When you hear move on.... Listen.... Tons of personal experiences have led to this general consensus only to save pain by dragging out the inevitable!!! Granted, not all situations warrant the same action, but It is hard to be objective when it's your ass getting kicked around and all you hear is, " move on ". Your still in love, it's hard to jump straight to " move on ", understandably so!!! There is alot of unbelievable individuals posting that offer intermediate solutions as knowone truly parts and moves on the next day!!! Express yourself as you did in this thread and listen to what comes your way!!! Hang in there
smile95 Posted June 16, 2005 Posted June 16, 2005 the initial shock of being dumped is you want them back. If you let go and can accept it is over then over time, you see them for what they are and do not want them back. If you do not let go and hold onto then you will contunue towant them back, as you are doing nothing to heal. So it is perfectly normal to want your "bad" ex back initially. It is human that you cling to things that you are afraid are gone or have left in an attempt to get them back
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