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Had this girl in my class at college. She dropped it, so I didn t really see her much, maybe in passing. Months went by, and I recently decided to hit her up. She answered, we have been talking on and off (texts) for almost 2 weeks. She seems interested at times and then at times not. She actually hit me up First a couple days back. She likes lot like me. We met up and smoked. (She brought her own herb, good or bad sign?) Her friend came with and my friends were there as well. we flirted but didn t kiss. Our latest conversation involved me coming to her place to chill. Later in that same conversation, she made a joke saying I must be pshycic. I responded "I bet I know what you re thinking".. She said what is that? I said "I bet you re wishing I was with you rn etc.." NO ANSWER SINCE. it s only been a day. We haven t spoken. I m worried I blew my chances.. If that s the case, is there any way to come back from it? Or do I still got a shot?? Appreciate any Tips

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ask her out

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Had this girl in my class at college. She dropped it, so I didn t really see her much, maybe in passing. Months went by, and I recently decided to hit her up. She answered, we have been talking on and off (texts) for almost 2 weeks. She seems interested at times and then at times not. She actually hit me up First a couple days back. She likes lot like me. We met up and smoked. (She brought her own herb, good or bad sign?) Her friend came with and my friends were there as well. we flirted but didn t kiss. Our latest conversation involved me coming to her place to chill. Later in that same conversation, she made a joke saying I must be pshycic. I responded "I bet I know what you re thinking".. She said what is that? I said "I bet you re wishing I was with you rn etc.." NO ANSWER SINCE. it s only been a day. We haven t spoken. I m worried I blew my chances.. If that s the case, is there any way to come back from it? Or do I still got a shot?? Appreciate any Tips

 

You're looking into this way to much, and she isn't even your girl.

 

No - You didn't ruin your chances, you just hurt them badly. I hope it wasn't over text. Texting the girl constantly makes her looks interest.

 

Go NC for a few weeks then hit her up with a date.

 

When you see a woman you are interested in, go for her romantically. For a friend she sees, a friend you shall always be.

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