Really Close Friend stopped talking to me..but she still talks to my ex

[ShootingStarlet]

I had a friend who I met about 2 years ago, she was dating my then-boyfriends best friend. We got close and when things went downhill with me and my boyfriend she actually took my side and she would go on about how she thought he was an awful boyfriend and a really annoying person anyway and I could do better. We stayed friends and got super close, talking everyday and seeing each other once a week to go out together. My ex broke up with me for the second time last May and started dating another girl straight away and it was really hard for me. The girl still stood by me and was a good friend. One day...she stopped talking to me. No reply to my messages, not even to my 'happy christmas' I've tried to ask her if anything is wrong, invited her out, invited her on holidays...nothing...she's still my friend on facebook though and I'm wondering if I should delete her, she doesn't even look at my messages. I can't think of anything I did, in fact,we had fun the last time I saw her ! But then I see her commenting on my EX'S page (even though she's still dating the other boy) and acting like they're great friends...when they both say mean things about each other behind each other's back. I don't know what I did wrong but I feel hurt and angry..I feel like saying something to her about how I feel. we're young adults, not even teenagers

[whichwayisup]

Delete her and don't say anything. It's just not worth it! She isn't putting any effort into you and the friendship anymore so why keep her on your friends list? She ain't a friend anymore.

 

Sorry that she did this to you, I know you'd probably like to know why but it's a can of worms not worth opening.

[preraph]

Sounds like her allegiance has switched. Is it possible your ex told her something you said about her that made her mad?

[ShootingStarlet]

I definitely never said anything about her negatively , I really liked her a lot, I kind of saw her as a big sister but yeah I guess I won't bother even asking her what happened again....I think it's a pity and it hurts me as much as my ex not talking to me hurts me which goes to show how much I valued her as a friend. Thanks for all the replies

[freestyle]

I suspect that your ex may have something to do with her attitude towards you... He may of been spreading rumors or even out right lies, just to alienate her from you...

Still that's on her--if she truly valued the friendship,she would've discussed it with you, instead of cutting you off without explanation.