jennifer80 Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Often I get the impression a guy is into me. Like he looks at me a lot, tries to be near me, get nervous around me, wants to spend his time with me, invests a lot in me, accidentially toches me alot, body language etc. In some of the cases I have got confirmation that I was right because he has admitted he likes me, in other occations I have got no confirmation of yes or no probably because I have pulled away. So my question is: if you thought someone liked you, did they turn out to really like you or was it just something you imagined?
lychee Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Depends. best way to know is to tell him...thats if you do like him...and ask him. You won't waste time guessing. Some people are just friendlier than others..assuming is always a bad idea. 1
kendahke Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Often I get the impression a guy is into me. Like he looks at me a lot, tries to be near me, get nervous around me, wants to spend his time with me, invests a lot in me, accidentially toches me alot, body language etc. In some of the cases I have got confirmation that I was right because he has admitted he likes me, in other occations I have got no confirmation of yes or no probably because I have pulled away. So my question is: if you thought someone liked you, did they turn out to really like you or was it just something you imagined? They turned out to really like me. I don't do mixed messages/behavior. Either speak up or get out of the way. I don't have time to sit around divining someone who won't speak up for what he wants. That's a colossal waste of time. At my age, men are not clumsy in their efforts to let me know. They don't stare, "accidentally" touch me, etc. They speak up and tell me straightforwardly. 1
Chris2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Crush at work. I think she knows. I don't think it's reciprocated. So no way I would admit.
preraph Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 I've been deluded before, plenty. A younger friend of mine who had looks going for her, blond, etc., once told me with certaintly that "If a guy likes you, you'll know it. You won't have to wonder about it." I think in general that's true. Of course, if you're already taken, then they may hold back. But otherwise, if a guy really likes you, he's going to come after you -- and if he doesn't, well, he's just not really fully equipped to date if he's that hesitant. So pay attention to the ones you can tell like you. And then put yourself in the paths of the ones you like and see what happens.
itstoni Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 Often I get the impression a guy is into me. Like he looks at me a lot, tries to be near me, get nervous around me, wants to spend his time with me, invests a lot in me, accidentially toches me alot, body language etc. In some of the cases I have got confirmation that I was right because he has admitted he likes me He likes you.
truth_seeker Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 if a guy really likes you, he's going to come after you -- and if he doesn't, well, he's just not really fully equipped to date if he's that hesitant. not really fully equipped?
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